How to Make a Pisces Man Obsessed With You Through Texting

A Pisces man can spend far more time thinking about a text than actually replying to it. Give him a message with emotion, imagination, or mystery behind it, and he may replay it in his head for hours.

If you want to make a Pisces man obsessed with you over text, give his imagination something to work with. Pisces is ruled by Neptune, the planet of dreams, fantasy, and illusion, so anticipation works especially well with him. Make him picture you, associate songs and places with you, and occasionally leave a conversation with something still on his mind.

Give Him Something to Imagine

He can create an entire romantic scenario from one sentence.

Instead of another “What are you doing?”, try something that immediately creates an image:

“I just walked past this tiny candlelit bar and thought you would love it.”

Or:

“This weather makes me want to disappear somewhere by the sea with you.”

Now he has somewhere for his imagination to go. The more he begins associating you with romantic places, trips, music, and experiences, the more likely he is to think about you when you are absent.

Leave Him Curious

You never have to explain everything immediately.

“I had a dream about you last night…”

“I realized something about you today. I’m deciding whether I should tell you.”

“You have no idea what I almost texted you.”

Then continue with your day. Pisces will happily fill the missing information with his own imagination. By the time you return to the conversation, he may have invented five possible explanations for what you meant.

Use this occasionally. Mystery loses its effect when every conversation becomes a cliffhanger.

Make Your Compliments Personal

Pisces wants to know that you see something in him other people overlook.

Instead of “You’re handsome,” try:

“I love the way your mind works.”

Or:

“You notice things other people completely miss.”

A specific compliment gives him something much more personal to hold onto. It tells him that you have actually been paying attention to who he is. And if he already likes you, knowing that you notice these little details can pull him closer.

Flirt With His Imagination

Neptune-ruled Pisces responds beautifully to flirting that creates a scene.

“If you were here tonight, I already know where I’d take you.”

“You would look dangerously good sitting across from me here.”

“I think we need a night somewhere nobody knows us.”

You have said enough to start the fantasy without describing the entire thing for him. Let his mind finish it.

This works especially well when there is already attraction between you because he begins imagining what spending time alone with you would actually be like.

Send Him Songs and Photos

Music is an easy way into a Pisces man’s memory.

Send him a song with:

“This reminded me of you.”

Or send a photo of somewhere beautiful and write:

“We would have fun here.”

Later, that song may play again and immediately bring you back into his mind. A similar place can do the same.

You are creating associations between you and things he encounters when you are nowhere around.

Give Him Space to Miss Your Messages

If you initiate every conversation and immediately revive every silence, he never gets the chance to notice your absence.

After a good conversation, leave it there. Go live your life. Give him an opportunity to text first, wonder what you are doing, or realize that he has been checking his phone hoping your name appears.

You need no artificial three-hour waiting rule. Simply avoid making yourself responsible for keeping every conversation alive.

Stay in His Head After the Conversation Ends

To make a Pisces man obsessed with you over text, focus on imagination, emotional connection, and anticipation. Send messages that give him something to picture, flirt in a way that leaves room for fantasy, share songs or photos he will associate with you, and let him initiate conversations too.

Pisces men can become deeply attached to the person they daydream about when their phone is nowhere in sight. If your texts make him imagine seeing you, kissing you, traveling with you, or wondering what you will say next, he will keep thinking about you long after the conversation ends.