Lilith is often called the “Dark Moon” or “Black Moon.” It holds an important yet mysterious position in astrology. Lilith represents our deepest wants, hidden feelings, and basic, primal instincts.
Unlike regular planets, Lilith isn’t a real thing in space. It’s a point calculated from how the Moon moves around Earth. In astrology charts, Lilith symbolizes the untamed, uncontrolled feminine side. She shows our creative power and ability to tear things down. Here are a few things I’ve noticed about Lilith in my life.
How Lilith In Gemini Manifests
Lilith in Gemini manifests as someone with a powerful intellect who questions society’s rules. People with this combination are very smart and curious. They like to challenge normal ways of thinking with their ideas and words.
Imagine Lilith as a woman who shows up to a party wearing all black, with glasses and gloves. She seems mysterious and a little creepy. But what you don’t know is that under her dress, she has hidden a weapon and poison. That’s the kind of vibe Lilith gives off.
Now think about Gemini, the zodiac sign known for having two sides. Gemini is also about communication. So with Lilith in Gemini, you’ve got a woman with a mind and tongue that are sharper than any knife. She uses her intelligence and way with words to stand out from the crowd.
Lilith In Gemini In 3rd House
When Lilith is in Gemini in the 3rd house, it often means suppressed communication, especially as a child. I have this placement, and so does one of my good friends – we both had similar experiences growing up.
As a kid, I really enjoyed writing and talking. With my Gemini stellium, communication comes naturally to me. But I always felt ashamed, ignored or unheard, like no one was interested in what I had to say. It’s like there’s some invisible force that makes no one listen or care about your opinions. Often, your words don’t seem to matter, and people ignore you or stay silent because they aren’t curious what you think. Even in school, if a teacher asked a question and I knew the answer, I’d stay quiet because I was afraid of how others might react.
One time, I wrote this really long poem for my favorite math teacher’s birthday. But the more I thought about it, the more ashamed I got. I ended up deciding to burn the paper with the poem on it.
Another thing I’ve noticed with Lilith in the 3rd house is that after being so suppressed as a child, you become silent as an adult. But it’s not that you don’t want to speak up – your mind is full of so many thoughts and words bubbling under the surface. There’s just something inside telling you “stay calm, your words won’t change anything.” Or when there’s conflict, you have a whole script in your head, even with curses and insults, but you hold back. Of course, if you don’t, you can do more damage than good with your words.
Lilith In Gemini In The 1st house
Having Lilith in Gemini in the first house means you have a very strong and unshakeable sense of yourself. You’re great at communicating and can really capture people’s attention with your quick wit. But this can also make you argumentative or too analytical sometimes.
It’s hard for you to see different sides of issues since you get torn between perspectives. When talking to others, you tend to be direct and want to push boundaries to find truth. You also make promises when happy or drinking, but don’t always follow through when sober again. So you can speak before fully thinking, which opens doors but doesn’t always help you.
Someone with Lilith in the first house of Gemini would be the type to lead big protests. You could see them standing on the main stage in front of thousands of people rallying for change. They want to use their voice to call on the government or others to make things better.
Lilith In Gemini In The 7th house
People with Lilith in Gemini in the 7th house have a truly remarkable way with words. They can be incredibly persuasive in relationships and have this uncanny ability to completely captivate others through communication.
It’s like they can make someone fall for them just by the way they talk. I know that probably sounds a little strange, but these folks really do seem to possess a kind of magical power with language. The text made it seem like they can actually make other people feel totally naked and vulnerable simply by having a conversation.
You’ve probably heard stories about manipulative yoga teachers who drew women in with their charisma but had bad intentions and used them physically. Well, that’s the type of influence someone with Lilith in Gemini in the 7th house can have. Their words have real power over others.
Lilith in Gemini In The 8th House
My astrology teacher told me about a journalist who traveled to Latin America to interview drug dealers. The only way she could get close enough for interviews was to sleep with them. Some might say, “An eye for an eye.” This lady had Lilith in Gemini in the eighth house.
This placement means intimacy can be used as a tool to get what you want. For her, what she wanted were interviews, since she was a journalist. This fits well with Gemini’s role of communication.
Of course, just having Lilith there doesn’t mean you’ll do the same. But for these people, communication and intimacy are both very important.
Other Observations
Having Lilith in Gemini in the 12th house is great for magic and spells. You’d be naturally good at speaking and magic.
If Lilith is in your 2nd house in Gemini, you may feel ashamed talking about money or your valuables. Your financial situation isn’t something you like to discuss.
With Lilith in your 6th house in Gemini, you likely gossip a lot at work. You also risk making yourself sick from negative self-talk or thinking bad thoughts.
