You’ve finally found your twin flame – the one person in the universe who perfectly mirrors your soul. It’s an intense spiritual connection that can’t be ignored. But there’s just one problem – they’re already taken. I get it, it really hurts. You’re feeling all kinds of emotions like sadness, jealousy, maybe even anger. Totally understandable to feel that way. But their relationship doesn’t change anything about your connection.
I’m in the same boat – my twin flame is with someone else. At first, I was really bummed about it too. But you know what? Their relationship has zero effect on our soul bond. I’m cool with it for a few reasons…
Twin Flames Are Not Always Romantic Partners
Just because you’ve found your twin flame doesn’t necessarily mean you’re destined for a romantic relationship. Many twin flames come into our lives to help us grow and evolve spiritually rather than be our life partner. Your twin flame is your spiritual counterpart, but that identity doesn’t automatically translate into romance.
Sometimes, twin flames are close friends. They inspire us, challenge our perspectives, and encourage growth by pushing us outside of our comfort zones so we can become our best selves. Think of them as another part of your soul. When you meet them, you feel complete, as if you’ve been reborn. However, this full feeling does not inherently require romance between you two.
Your twin flame’s path in life may differ from your own. They could already be in a committed relationship, living in another country, or feeling called towards a direction that diverges from your journey.
Twin flame connections are not always easy, yet sexuality or romantic attraction alone does not define the twin flame bond. Rather, it’s the depth of understanding, strong connection, telepathy, lessons they teach to help you grow, and the reflections of yourself they reveal that truly make your twin flame experience so profound.
Why I’m Okay With That
I’ve come to accept that our connection transcends the physical. My twin and I share an unbreakable soul bond that goes beyond any earthly relationship and just because they are dating someone else (or even married) does not mean I would break the bond. That would be the worst decision ever.
While it might seem strange, I don’t feel jealous when I see them with their partner. I know that what my twin and I have is eternal. Nothing can replace how well we get each other or how close we are spiritually.
Another thing I’ve noticed about twin flames is how intense it is. When you meet them they show you this whole new side of yourself, stuff that makes you realize things, for better or worse. During those really spiritual moments together I felt totally fulfilled, totally satisfied and I came to the realization that physical intimacy wouldn’t even deepen this connection. It can’t go any deeper.
Here’s The Problem..
The problem only starts when you have a twin flame that’s in a relationship, but you want them to date you; instead, you want to disrupt their current relationships. You start to get jealous and possessive.
People need to realize that twin flames are much deeper soul connections than your regular relationships. The purpose of a twin flame isn’t necessarily to end up together in this lifetime, at least right away. Often, twin flames come together to help each other grow and evolve on a soul level.
So, if your twin flame is dating someone else, try to be happy for them instead of judging their relationships. Focus on your own growth and transformation. The more you can let go of wanting to control or change your twin flame, the more peace you’ll find within yourself.
But if you find yourself really wanting to be intimate with your twin flame, the best thing you can do is create some separation – at least for now. Work on yourself, pursue things and hobbies you love, and cultivate independence. Let the universe bring you together at the right time, in the right way.
Don’t Try To Change Them
I know it stings to see your twin flame with someone else, but remember it’s all part of the journey. They came into your life for a reason, and just because they’re with someone different now doesn’t mean your connection isn’t powerful. You and them, you’re both spiritual beings on a spiritual path. It’s not about being in a relationship or getting intimate. You’ve got a soul bond that runs deeper than all that. Sure, maybe down the line, you’ll end up together in a relationship. But for now, don’t try to force them to change.
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