You’ve probably heard that Geminis have two sides to their personality. Honestly, that’s an understatement. Cross a Gemini, and you’ll see their dark side emerge faster than a tornado in Kansas. And when a Gemini gets mad, you better watch out!
Their temper is legendary. They’ll go from calm and collected one minute to a seething ball of rage the next. So do yourself a favor and don’t make a Gemini angry. Getting on their bad side is not somewhere you want to be.
The Dual Nature of Geminis
Geminis can be a little all over the place. They’ve got that split personality thing going on like the twins they represent. One minute, they’re super social and fun to be around; the next, they want to be left alone and might seem irritable. Or they can be both of those things on the same day!
It’s because they’ve got that dual nature. Their moods and how they’re feeling can change on a dime. So if you don’t know a Gemini that well yet, it’s good to keep in mind so you don’t get into fights with them over nothing.
It’s like they’ve got two people fighting it out inside them at all times, just going back and forth considering things from different angles. And yes, they can really get mad at themselves, too! So if you make them angry, you’ve to deal with double the anger!
Geminis are all about moving fast. They think fast, act fast, so even if you do make them mad they’ll usually get over it quick. And forgive you just as fast too. Plus they’re super energetic and love living in the moment, so they don’t want to hold onto anger cause then they wouldn’t be able to enjoy life.
How Geminis Handle Anger
Geminis tend to get angry quickly but also calm down fast. Their anger is usually short-lived and superficial. However, watch out if you’ve really provoked them – they can give you an earful!
When angry, Geminis will express themselves through sarcastic and biting comments. They’ll make sure you know exactly why they’re upset with their quick wit and sharp tongue.
Once they’ve vented, though, the storm will pass. Geminis don’t like to dwell on negative feelings and will move on from the situation swiftly. They may even act like nothing happened at all! This ability to compartmentalize their anger allows Geminis to forgive easily without holding grudges.
Still, it’s best not to anger a Gemini in the first place. They like it when people are real with them and you can actually talk about stuff. But say you did something that bugged them, you have to say you’re sorry as soon as you can.
Time won’t necessarily make it better with a Gemini. You should apologize right away and not think that if you wait they’ll get over it. Make sure to explain exactly what happened and take the blame for what you did. Geminis will respect that you’re trying to fix things.
Their Secret Weapon? Silent Treatment!
You’ve probably heard that Geminis are known for being really social and talkative. Well, usually that’s true, but if they get really mad at you, watch out. Nothing hurts worse than the silent treatment.
No texts, no calls, total radio silence. For a Gemini, communication and mental stimulation are like oxygen. So, cutting you off completely from their words, laughs, everything? That cuts deep. They’ll pretend you don’t even exist in public. It’s their way of making you feel as hurt as they did.
The silent treatment can last for days or even weeks until the Gemini feels you’ve suffered enough. But they aren’t stubborn – if you really apologize, they’ll get over it and start talking to you again usually.
My advice? If you upset a Gemini man or woman, you better say you’re sorry as fast as you can. Communication is huge for Geminis. You can charm them with your talking, but you can also push them away the same way.
