Getting ghosted by anyone is annoying, doesn’t matter their astrology sign. Now imagine that person was a Cancer. Cancers are notorious for pulling disappearing acts, especially when the relationship starts to get really serious. One day, everything seems fine, the next—poof—they’ve vanished without a trace. Just when you’re ready to write them off for good, there’s a text from out of the blue. What gives?
Cancers tend to retreat into their shells when they feel overwhelmed or vulnerable. Commitment can stir up deep fears of abandonment or loss of independence for these crabs. But their disappearing acts are often temporary. The question is, will you be waiting for them when they do? Or will their ghosting behavior be the final nail in the coffin of your short-lived romance?
Cancer Is Loyal, But Moody
Cancers are loyal to a fault, but their moods can change in an instant. One day, they’re showering you with affection; the next, they disappear without a trace. Sound familiar?
They often retreat into their shell. When life gets overwhelming, Cancers isolate themselves to recharge and process their emotions. You may think they are ghosting you on purpose when in reality, they are just recharging their batteries.
Typically, they come back when they’re ready. After a few days or weeks of radio silence, your Cancer will emerge from hiding. They’ll apologize profusely for their absence and want to pick up where you left off. All will be forgiven.
When they do so, reassure them you’re not going anywhere. Cancers are sensitive and easily frightened by perceived rejection or abandonment. Remind them you understand their need for alone time and your feelings haven’t changed. Your patience and loyalty will mean the world.
Don’t forget to compromise when they’re moody. They can be temperamental, so try not to take their mood swings personally. Gently encourage them to open up about what’s bothering them, but also give them space if they’re not ready to talk. Meet them halfway.
Why Would A Cancer Ghost Their Partner?
If your Cancer suddenly stopped talking to you, and you have no idea why, it could be something going on with them or something going on with you. Only you’ll really know the deal. But usually, when this happens, it’s for one of a few main reasons.
Fear of Vulnerability
Fear of vulnerability is one possible reason why a Cancer man or woman might ghost their partner. Cancers are known for being sensitive, emotional, and protective of their hearts. They tend to build emotional walls to avoid getting hurt.
When a Cancer falls for someone, they start to let their walls down and become vulnerable. This can trigger feelings of anxiety and fear in Cancer, making them want to retreat. Opening up fully and sharing one’s emotions requires a lot of trust and confidence, which some Cancers lack in the early stages of a relationship.
So when a Cancer senses that they are developing deep feelings for their partner, their instinct may be to pull away and disappear rather than face that vulnerability. They worry that being so emotionally available will leave them heartbroken if the relationship doesn’t work out. Ghosts in order to protect themselves from future hurt, even if that means hurting their partner in the process.
You Betrayed Them
When they open up to someone and make them part of their inner circle, they do so with complete trust. So when that trust is broken through any form of betrayal, it cuts them deeply.
Cancers wear their hearts on their sleeves and tend to form very intense emotional bonds. For them, betrayal is not just breaking a rule, it hurts their very soul. They need time alone to heal from that pain and hurt.
Going no contact or ghosting their partner may be their way of coping with the emotional trauma caused by betrayal. They need space to process their feelings, rebuild their trust, and decide if they are ready to forgive and move forward in the relationship.
Will Cancer Return After Ghosting?
Will your Cancer that disappeared on you might come back around eventually? More often than not, they do tend to return. But here’s the thing with Cancers – they can be real emotional enigmas. Their moods and actions are tough to foresee for sure. There’s no telling what might happen.
They typically come back when:
- Their mood changes. Cancerians are highly emotional and intuitive. If they ghosted you during a period of stress, sadness, or vulnerability, they may come back once they’re in a better state of mind and able to face the situation.
- They miss you. Cancers form deep emotional bonds, so if they share a genuine connection with you, they’ll likely miss you when you’re gone. The longing may eventually prompt them to reach out again.
- They feel guilty. The caring and compassionate Cancer conscience can weigh heavily on them. Ghosting someone goes against their nurturing nature, so they may return to make amends and ease their guilt.
- Time has passed. As painful memories fade and emotional wounds heal, the Cancer may feel more willing and able to reopen lines of communication. A few months of space can provide needed perspective. Yes, they need that much time, unfortunately.
Of course, there are no guarantees. The Cancer man or woman may have moved on for good. But if there were a strong emotional bond and the ghosting was uncharacteristic, the odds of a return are higher.
My advice? Live your own life, set healthy boundaries, and avoid pining after someone who left without explanation. If it’s meant to be, the Cancer will come back when the time is right. But don’t wait around—keep swimming..or flying. Whatever you choose!
