We Geminis have a short fuse but an even shorter attention span for negative feelings. Staying mad requires too much effort and goes against our naturally curious and playful spirit.
But that being said, if something really bad goes down, like a big fight or betrayal, it’s not like we’ll just get over it immediately. Sometimes, we need a little space and time to process. And to be totally honest, there may be a small part of us that stays just a tiny bit mad, even after we’ve moved on. If you really hurt us or break our trust, that’s not something we just forget completely.
Minutes To Hours
Geminis are known for their quick temper, but the good thing is they don’t stay mad for too long. If you say something dumb that bugs them, they’ll probably only be annoyed for a few minutes, maybe a couple of hours, tops.
It’s cause Mercury is their ruling planet, the one about communication. So, Geminis really like talking and getting their thoughts out there. Once they’ve had a chance to vent about what made them mad, their mood starts improving pretty quickly.
Even for bigger issues, a Gemini usually won’t stay angry long term. Within an hour or two, they’ll have moved on to something else that catches their interest. While they may not forget, Geminis tend to live in the present moment and find it easy to forgive and forget.
So if you said something silly, don’t try to pretend it didn’t happen. Better to just apologize or give them a day to chill out before talking again.
Days To Weeks
The astrological twins really value loyalty in their relationships. Hurting one can be really damaging to the bond you two share. If a Gemini feels like you’ve betrayed their trust or done something to deeply upset them, they may hold onto that anger for a long, long time.
Geminis want honesty from those close to them. Lying or not being truthful is a big no-no that can cause major issues. Breaking their trust is one of the worst things you can do because that’s so important to them. They may decide they don’t want anything more to do with you after something like that. A Gemini would cut off all contact if they feel the damage can’t be repaired.
The only way to even start making things right is with a sincere apology. And I mean really owning up to your mistakes – no excuses or trying to downplay what happened. You’ve got to admit fully what you did wrong if you want a chance to regain their trust. Beyond just saying sorry, you need to show them you’re willing to do better in the future. Make an effort to prove you’ve learned from what happened.
Even if a Gemini accepts your apology and is willing to try rebuilding the relationship, things may never be exactly the same between you again. Hurting a Gemini’s trust leaves a mark that doesn’t fully go away. It can change the dynamic of your connection going forward. So if you value a Gemini in your life, honesty and loyalty are really important to give them.
Months To Forever
If you broke a Gemini’s heart, betrayed their trust, or did something to deeply break their trust in you, don’t expect them to come running back or text you trying to reconnect.
You often hear that Geminis aren’t emotional and that they’re always doing ten things at once. While Geminis do tend to multitask, that’s not the whole story. Yes, we may keep busy to try and distract ourselves, but we never truly forget what happened. Even when we’re cooking, driving, painting, laying in bed, or swimming, our minds often drift back to thinking about what you did or said. And the more we dwell on it, the less desire we have to be in contact with you again.
The wounds you cause a Gemini can take a very long time to truly heal. And sometimes, even after they’ve healed, there may still be a noticeable scar that serves as a reminder of what you put them through. So if you do something to deeply hurt a Gemini, don’t expect us to just miraculously start talking to you again or pretend like nothing happened.
Even after we’ve forgiven you and accepted your apology, we never forget how you made us feel or what you did. That memory stays with us.
We Forgive But Never Forget
Under normal circumstances, Gemini’s anger is as quick to flame up as it is to extinguish. But don’t assume we’ll forget easily. We may say it’s all good, but we don’t forget stuff. It’s not like we want to keep being mad at you forever, it’s just our brain that doesn’t let stuff go. We’ll forgive you, but we won’t forget what happened. It’s just what it is. It’s us, Geminis.
