You know the relationship is toxic, but you just can’t seem to break free. The truth is, you may have developed a soul tie with this person that needs to be severed so you can walk in freedom. As Christians, we’re supposed to break unhelpful connections to others and only stick with Christ.
In this article, you’ll learn about what those connections are called, how they form, and most importantly, how to break them through Jesus. You don’t have to stay stuck in bad relationships or always thinking about past problems. There is hope and getting better in Christ if you’re willing to say no to unhelpful bonds and take back control of your spiritual self.
Why Soul Ties Form?
Soul ties form when two souls become knit together, often in an unhealthy and toxic way. They develop through close relationships – both positive and negative ones. Unhealthy soul ties happen when a relationship involves manipulation, control, lust, or co-dependency.
As humans, we crave intimacy. But some relationships can become enmeshed, with no boundaries. This often happens gradually, without us realizing it. Some warning signs of an unhealthy soul tie include:
- Feeling unable to leave the relationship or like you “need” the other person.
- Loss of identity or unable to be your authentic self around them.
- Feeling drained, anxious, or upset after interacting with them.
- Difficulty making your own decisions without their input.
- Constantly seeking their approval or validation.
- Feeling like your happiness depends on them.
Unhealthy soul ties can form with friends, family, exes, or even abusers. They create spiritual and emotional bondage that only God can break. Through Christ, though, you can find freedom from unhealthy relationships and soul ties. You can reclaim your identity in Him, set boundaries, and build healthy connections.
Signs You May Need To Break A Soul Tie
If you find yourself constantly dwelling on a past relationship or unable to move on from an unhealthy attachment, you may need to break a soul tie. Here are some signs it’s time:
Lingering emotional attachment: You still have strong feelings for an ex long after the breakup. Thoughts of them consume your mind, and you struggle with longing or jealousy.
Unexplained mood changes: Your emotions seem linked to the other person, like feeling suddenly angry, sad, or anxious, and you can’t pinpoint why. This could indicate your soul remains bound.
Physical symptoms: You experience unexplained physical pain, illness, or discomfort that doctors can’t diagnose. Soul ties can manifest physically.
Feeling drained or lacking purpose: You feel like part of you is missing, or you lack motivation and passion. Soul ties sap your energy and strength.
Repeating unhealthy patterns: You find yourself in similar unhealthy relationships or situations again and again. Soul ties can drive you to reenact dynamics from the past.
Difficulty praying or reading Scripture: Your spiritual life feels blocked or distant. Soul ties create barriers between you and God that need breaking.
You can break a soul tie as a Christian through prayer and faith in Christ. Ask God to sever any ties not of Him, forgive yourself and others, and rededicate your heart and relationships to Him. As you walk in God’s truth and grace, past ties will lose their power, and you’ll find wholeness in Him alone.
How To Break Unhealthy Soul Ties Through Jesus Christ
To break unhealthy soul ties as a Christian, you need to first recognize them, then take steps to sever them through the power of Jesus Christ.
Recognize The Signs
Do you have an unhealthy emotional, mental or physical attachment to someone that is hindering your walk with God? This could be a soul tie. Common signs include:
- Constantly thinking about the person
- Feeling like you need them to be happy or fulfilled
- Physical reactions (fast heartbeat, butterflies) when you see them
- Difficulty letting go of a past relationship
- Manipulation or control by the other person
Repent And Renounce
Repent for forming the soul tie and renounce it in Jesus’ name. Pray something like:
“Lord Jesus, I repent for forming an unhealthy soul tie with [name]. I renounce this soul tie in Your name. Please break any ungodly bonds between myself and this person.”
Forgive And Release
Forgive the other person for their part in forming the tie. Release them through prayer:
“I forgive [name] for [reasons]. I release them into Your hands, Lord Jesus. I choose to let go of all resentment and unforgiveness towards them.”
Break Soul Ties With Prayer
Pray to break the soul tie in Jesus’ mighty name. For example:
“In the name of Jesus Christ, I remove all soul ties between myself and [name]. I sever all ungodly bonds, attachments and connections in the spiritual realm. Lord Jesus, please remove any cords that are not of You and close any doors that were opened.”
Walk In Freedom
Claim your freedom in Christ! Thank Him for breaking the soul tie and ask for wisdom and strength to guard your heart going forward. Now you can move on from unhealthy relationships and into the new life Jesus has for you.
God Loves You
Remember that God loves you and wants you to experience freedom and wholeness. Don’t lose hope – with God, all things are possible! Make the choice today to prioritize your relationship with Christ above all else. As you surrender areas of brokenness and hurt, God will replace them with His perfect peace and joy.
You have the power through Christ to overcome, so walk forward in confidence, knowing you are not alone. Choose freedom – you deserve to live the abundant life God has for you!
