You’ve probably heard about it in the news or from friends: the O-method. It’s a new technique to make your dreams come true by getting, uh, intimate.
I know some people who say it really works for them, and they’ve been able to manifest all sorts of things since they started doing it. But it makes others uncomfortable. They argue it pushes things too far or could even be dangerous. So what’s the truth? Is the O-method just a bold new approach or something that crosses the line?
What Is The O-Method?
The O-method manifestation is the law of attraction technique that uses sex and orgasms as a way to manifest your desires. The thought process is that being in that really pleasurable state can help you tune into the feeling of already having whatever it is you want to create. This method has gotten big over the last few years since lots of videos started popping up about it on YouTube and TikTok.
According to the law of attraction, we typically attract things when we are in a “high” state of being or feeling highly energized and vibrant. We experience these heightened states of being when we feel deep love, happiness, joy, or excitement. Some say these elevated vibrational states also occur during intimate activities.
Some believers in manifestation think that getting intimate or having an orgasm really boosts your vibrations, allowing you to visualize your dreams and goals or repeat affirmations powerfully. The idea is that taking advantage of that heightened energy window could supercharge the manifestation process.
But when you think about it, an orgasm or peak feeling usually only lasts a few moments. While your energy may spike during that, can you really direct it in a focused way to consciously manifest what you want?
Personally, I have my doubts that a few seconds is enough time to intentionally shape reality. Sure, being in an uplifted state could help with attracting what you want, but the short duration of climax may limit how you can apply it for manifestation.
Is It Dangerous?
The O-method itself isn’t necessarily dangerous. It doesn’t involve anything like threats or harming yourself physically or mentally. But there is a potential risk if you’re not fully enjoying the experience itself, become obsessed with sex or orgasms, or let it negatively impact your relationships by only wanting to do it to manifest dreams.
When you’re practicing it, the focus is more on thinking about your dreams and visions rather than being fully present in the moment. So you might miss out on really appreciating the good feelings in your body.
To me, the O-method is probably okay to try as long as you do it in moderation and responsibly. But really paying attention to how you’re feeling and making sure you’re taking care of yourself is important, too, to avoid any potential issues.
Potential Dangers of The O-Method
Here are a few things about the O-method that raise some red flags for me:
Obsession
Some people, instead of taking a few minutes each day for something like meditation, writing affirmations, or visualization, end up jumping straight to bed to be intimate with their partner or “take care of themselves.”
The thing is, it’s not really about enjoying themselves in the moment. They actually think getting orgasms will somehow magically manifest their dreams into reality. Over time, that kind of thinking can really turn into an obsession or even an addiction. The healthy way is to put in real work manifesting your dreams into reality, not thinking an orgasm is going to do it for you every day.
Relationship Issues
If you believe that achieving orgasms every day is the key to manifesting your dreams, that’s going to cause some problems. If you’re masturbating all the time to do this, you’re probably not going to want to be intimate with your partner at the end of the day. And if you’re constantly pushing them for sex just so you can climax and visualize, that’s going damage the relationship over time for sure. When you look at it that way, the “O-method” is selfish.
Disappointment
Trying to have an orgasm every single day just so you can visualize your dreams and goals isn’t probably going to work out how you want long term. Sure, using intimacy to feel good and focus your mind can be great. But putting that kind of pressure on yourself to climax and see instant results is a recipe for disappointment.
It’s only natural to get frustrated if you don’t see any dreams coming true after weeks or months of “trying” during private time. That disappointment can start to mess with your head and even make orgasms harder to achieve. Over time, that stress is not good for your mental well-being or your relationship.
I’m Not A Fan
Intimacy should be about enjoying yourself or your partner in each moment. Why stress yourself out visualizing dreams and goals? With the law of attraction, there aren’t really any rules – it’s more like “like attracts like.” If you want to manifest something, just be that thing, feel it, and act like you already have it. Whether you get an orgasm or not, you can manifest anything you want by setting clear intentions and focusing on it.
What do you think about this method? Have you had any good experiences with it? Let’s chat about it more on Twitter!
