A Venus square Saturn can definitely make things tough in a relationship. This aspect puts some real challenges in your way that aren’t going to disappear overnight. It’s going to be an uphill battle at times as you both try to deal with Saturn’s restrictions and Venus’s desires. But don’t lose hope – if you and your partner are willing to put in the effort, you can overcome anything this aspect throws at you. It’ll take time and compromise for both of you, but if you reach the top of that hill together, the view will be more amazing than you ever dreamed.
The Push And Pull Aspect
When Venus and Saturn are squared in a relationship chart, it can mean the connection takes some work. The Venus person tends to feel it more, while the Saturn person puts on the brakes a lot. To put it simply, the Saturn person is like glue – the Venus person feels stuck and doesn’t know how to get the Saturn person unstuck.
Imagine you’ve been seeing someone for a while and think they have feelings for you too. You’re the Venus person who feels love deeply and wants to show it. They’re the Saturn person. You send a sweet text but they reply coldly. Or you tell them how much you care and they just nod and say “Of course!” Or you text and it takes them hours or days to respond.
The energy goes back and forth between you – when Venus gets tired of the cold, slow communication, that’s when Saturn will start texting more. But then, when Venus texts more, Saturn pulls back again. So it’s kind of a push-pull dynamic.
With this aspect, you may feel an initial spark but struggle to open up emotionally. Saturn’s serious nature clashes with Venus’ need for affection, putting up roadblocks. You’ll need patience and compromise to strengthen the bond. After all, Saturn is about the long haul. Saturn moves slowly and represents discipline and long-term goals, while Venus just wants love and affection right now. Venus is warm and loving, while Saturn is cooler and loves in a more reserved way full of rules.
Because of this, the Venus person may feel like they’re dealing with someone who doesn’t even like them or is more of a business partner than a love interest. This astrological connection can seem more formal than freely flowing love.
Hot Venus With Cold Saturn
Venus is all about love, relationships and intimacy. But Saturn, he puts up some walls and holds back the emotions. With this aspect, you might feel torn between getting close to your partner and also keeping your distance. Saturn’s energy makes you careful about opening up and not so great with affection. One of you could seem not that into it, or maybe find things to criticize instead of sharing feelings.
Now that doesn’t mean love can’t happen with you two. But it’ll take work, and patience for sure. Lots of patience! In time, as the trust builds, Saturn will relax his grip a little. But pulling away or being too picky could still come up when things get stressful or you’re feeling unsure.
It’s possible to make it work; just go slow and understand each other. But if you’re the Venus person, looking for someone who’s constantly showering you with compliments, sending good morning and good night texts every day, and wanting to spend every waking moment together, well, that might be tough with the Saturn person. You’ll feel stuck with them.
