You met someone and felt this intense connection, like you totally understand each other on a deep level, and it feels like you’ve known each other your whole lives. But there’s just one problem – they’re married.
As hard as it is, you need to put some distance between you. I know how much it hurts, but continuing whatever this is will only lead to a broken heart. Believe me, stepping back is the best thing for both of you, especially for your own well-being. I know it doesn’t seem like it now, but you’ll save yourself a lot of pain in the long run.
Why It’s Best To Walk Away When Your Twin Flame Is Married
Walking away from a married twin flame is one of the hardest things you’ll ever have to do, but it really is for the best. As painful as it is, sticking around will only lead to heartbreak and hurt.
They’re already committed to someone else. As much as you feel like you’re meant to be together, they made a promise to their spouse. Respecting their marriage is the ethical thing to do. Hanging on in hopes they’ll leave their partner for you will likely end in disappointment.
What’s more, you deserve so much better than being “the other woman” or “the other man.” You’re worth more than stolen moments and being a secret. You need someone who can commit to you fully and give you their whole heart.
Staying entangled in a relationship with a married twin flame prevents you from finding a healthy, available partner. As long as you’re focused on them, you can’t move on to find real love. Walking away, while difficult, allows you to start the healing process and open your heart to new relationships.
Lastly, choosing to exit this unhealthy dynamic will help you gain clarity and rediscover your worth. Once you’ve untangled yourself, you’ll realize your own strength and value. You’ll see that you never needed them to complete you. Your twin flame was a lesson, not your destiny. The true journey is within.
Saying goodbye to a married twin flame is an act of self-love. It may hurt at first, but in the long run, walking away will lead you to a far better place. The pain will fade, and you’ll find peace knowing you chose integrity and honored your own heart.
How To Heal And Move Forward
- It’s time to go no contact. Block them on everything – social media, phone, or email. Out of sight, out of mind is the way to do it. Any reminders of them will just open up that wound and slow down your healing.
- Give yourself time to feel those feelings. Let those tears flow if you need to have a good cry. Journaling can help, too. And definitely talk about it with people who’ve been through something similar. Don’t bottle it up – get those emotions out there. Dealing with the pain will help you work through it.
- Lean on your trusted crew. Call up close friends and family for comfort. Their strength and positivity can help lift you up during this rough patch.
- Focus your energy on self-care. Exercise, eat well, do stuff you enjoy. When you take good care of your health and happiness, it’ll do wonders for how you feel about yourself.
- Think about the relationship realistically. As hard as it is, look at the good and bad to gain some perspective. That can strengthen your resolve that walking away was the right move.
- Don’t dwell on the past and overthink things. While reflection helps, try not to obsess over what went wrong or what could’ve been. Take steps to avoid those negative thought loops.
I know you’re hurting right now, but I promise you, it’s going to get better with time. The pain won’t last forever – before you know it, you’ll start feeling more optimistic about the future.
And when you’re ready to get back out there, I’m sure someone even better will come along. You just have to believe in yourself. Leaving that relationship was obviously the right call if it wasn’t making you happy and healthy anymore. Taking that first step away was the brave thing to do!