You’re exhausted. You’ve done everything you can to make it work, but your twin flame just keeps running. At some point, you’ve gotta stop chasing and say your piece before you walk away for good.
We get it – letting go of your twin flame feels impossible. The connection is so deep, it’s hard to imagine life without them. But the dynamic is toxic, and the constant push and pull is destroying you. Before you finally set them free, there are a few things you need to say. This is your closure – don’t miss the chance to speak your truth.
The Twin Flame Runner Dynamic
Don’t take it personally if they seemed to pull away from you. Twin flame connections can be incredibly intense, and maybe they just weren’t in a place where they could handle it.
It’s possible they had some stuff going on themselves that made it hard to focus on your relationship. But whatever the reason, it sounds like you’ve come to realize you can’t spend your time waiting around anymore. Don’t forget, just because it didn’t work out doesn’t mean they didn’t care about you. I’m sure you’ll both move forward in your own way.
Don’t chase them or try to convince them of the connection. This will only cause them to run further. Instead, let them go because when the time is right, your twin flame will come back to you. But for now, wish them well on their journey and turn inward. Here is what to say to your twin flame runner.
What To Say To Your Twin Flame Runner
Lay it all out there – how they made you feel, what you truly wanted from the connection, and why their actions don’t align with that. Be honest but kind about the impact of their running and how it has made you question the relationship.
- Tell them you understand the intensity of the connection was scary but that their avoidance caused you pain. Say you wished they had communicated openly instead of distancing themselves.
- Share that you’re open to reconnecting if they can meet you halfway and commit to consistent, caring communication. But also make it clear that you value yourself too much to continue being left in the dark.
- Let them know that as deeply as you care for them, you have to protect your own heart and sanity. Tell them that if they are unwilling or unable to show up for you, you have to walk away as an act of self-love.
- Thank them for the beauty of what you shared, but explain that you deserve relationships where you feel secure and cared for. Bid them farewell and wish them the best.
When you are ready to talk to your twin flame runner, do it without being mad or blaming them for anything. That might help you feel better and leave things open in case they want to work on things later. But really, you have to take care of yourself now.
You poured your heart into that relationship, so now you need to pour that love into yourself. I know it’s tough since you chased after them, and they kept pulling away. But just because of that doesn’t mean you need to start giving them the cold shoulder or acting like you’re too good for them now.
Be Kind
Speaking gently and from the heart will help ease their fears and remind them of the depth of your care and affection. Let them know you get why they left, and there’s no bad blood. Having patience and unconditional love can help them feel comfortable coming back, since they’ll see you’re a safe space.
And again, just because things didn’t work out doesn’t mean anyone’s a bad guy. It doesn’t mean you are a bad person, either. You just have to accept what happened but still be nice about it.
Remember
No matter what happens next, this is your journey. You’re allowed to choose your path. If walking away ends up being the healthiest decision for you, know that this doesn’t make you weak or uncaring. It makes you strong and wise. Listen to your heart and spirit, then walk forward with your head held high. Perhaps your twin flame is meant to be a teacher, not a lover!
