You’ve probably heard those stories about people having near-death experiences, where they floated above their body and looked down at it and everyone around them. Stories like that are pretty good evidence that even after someone passes away, they’re still watching over us and know how much we care about them.
They can see when we’re sad and crying, when we pray, when we cook their favorite recipe, or read their favorite book. And, of course, they know we miss them and love them.
Our Loved Ones Live On Through Us
Our loved ones live on through us in so many ways after they pass. Their memories, lessons, and impact on our lives endure. We carry parts of them with us each and every day.
The little things – like using a recipe they shared or watching their favorite movie – allow us to honor them in simple ways. Hearing their favorite song on the radio can bring a smile as we sing along, remembering the times we enjoyed it together.
Looking through old photos helps us recall joyful moments from the past. We see their smile, hear their laughter, and feel their warmth and love all over again. These keepsakes are treasures that keep our bond strong.
The values and life skills they instilled in us guide our choices and shape our character. The compassion they showed lives on in our kindness towards others. Their optimism or humor is reflected in our own outlook and the way we spread positivity to those around us.
Though they are gone, the impact our loved ones had on us and on the world will never fade. A part of their light still shines in us, allowing their memory and spirit to live on forever.
Our loved ones who have passed on really do continue to be with us in a way. Whenever we show love, strength, or courage and hit new milestones in life, a part of them is there with us. They live on through the lives we impact and the way we carry on. Doing things they enjoyed or using things they made is a nice way to let them know we still think about them and miss having them around.
Signs From Beyond That Our Lost Loved Ones Are Near
I’ve noticed a few things that make me think those who’ve passed are still around, looking out for us. The main ones I’ve come across are:
Strange Noises or Scents
Have you heard unusual sounds like knocking, scratching, or whispering with no explanation? Or noticed familiar scents like their perfume, flowers they loved, a favorite food, or perhaps even cigarette smoke? Our loved ones may use sounds and smells we associate with them to signify their presence.
Electrical Disturbances
Lights flickering on and off for no apparent reason, the TV turning on in the middle of the night with no one around – at first, it’s unsettling, maybe even a little scary. But then you think, what if it’s not something to fear? What if it’s a sign that the ones we’ve lost are still with us in their own way?
I remember when the power went out in just my grandma’s room one day, nothing else in the house was affected. She had passed just a few months before. My grandpa swore up and down that she was letting us know she was okay. And who am I to say he was wrong? It gave him comfort at a difficult time. We all process grief differently, after all.
Sometimes, a dead battery or technical glitch just isn’t as nice a thought as the idea that our loved ones are still around, looking out for us. Not that we can say for certain either way. But if believing they’re near brings even a moment of peace, well, then maybe that’s reason enough to think the flickering light might mean they’re trying to say hello.
Objects Moved or Gone Missing
If special belongings of your loved one have been moved or gone missing briefly, only to turn up again later in an obvious spot, this could be their doing. They know these items are meaningful to you, so they move them, hoping you’ll notice and sense they’re near.
They know those things were important to you, so moving them to an obvious spot is their way of reminding you of their presence. I’m not saying it to scare you – just give you something to think about. The ones we’ve lost want us to feel their love still. So don’t be too quick to write off those little mysteries. It could be your person’s way of saying they’re watching over you, even if you can’t see them.
Visions or Dreams
Seeing fleeting images of your loved one or dreaming of them often is a common sign they’re visiting you. In dreams, they may offer comfort, advice or just go about ordinary activities with you like in life. Wake up feeling at peace, reassured they’re still with you.
I’ve talked with others who’ve had similar experiences, too. Little glimpses of their loved one, whether in a dream or even just a fleeting image, out of the corner of their eye. And it always seems to leave them feeling reassured, like whatever bond we share can’t be broken so easily, even by death.
They’re finding a way to say, “I’m still here, and I know you miss and love me. I do, too.” It’s comforting to think that maybe they’re looking out for us, wanting us to know they don’t want us to grieve forever, but that it’s okay to keep living and be happy even without them here physically. As long as we hold them in our hearts, I think a part of them will always be with us, too.
