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Your Digital Frenemies: Why Some Friends Never Like Your Posts

Last updated: 2023/10/26 at 3:17 PM
11 Min Read
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Ever noticed how some of your friends never seem to like any of your social media posts? At first, it may sound trivial or childish to care about something like that but hear me out. Whether you’re 15 or 50, the friends who never show you any love on Instagram or Facebook reveal a lot more about your relationship than you might think.

The truth is, those digital frenemies of yours—the ones who heart and comment on everyone else’s photos but ignore yours—aren’t as good of friends as you assume. Their social media behavior provides an unfiltered glimpse into how they really feel about you, and it’s time to pay attention.

Contents
They’re Jealous of Your PopularityThey Don’t Actually Use Social Media MuchYour Content Doesn’t Align With Their InterestsThey’re Just Too Busy To EngageThey Prefer More Private InteractionsThey May Not Realize Likes Matter To YouThey Secretly Like YouThey Are Not Real FriendsThey Don’t Actually Support YouThey’re Only “Frenemies”They’re Too Self-AbsorbedThe Relationship Has Grown ApartFinal Words

They’re Jealous of Your Popularity

Let’s face it, some “friends” just can’t handle your social media wins. Whether it’s a killer selfie that racks up likes or a post about your awesome new gig that gets tons of congrats, their silence speaks volumes.

These digital frenemies are green with envy. Your popularity and success, even in small doses on social media, remind them of their own lack of it. So rather than click “like” or post a quick comment, they ignore you. It’s a passive-aggressive way to make you feel small and dull their own insecurities.

Don’t let their jealousy get you down. Their inability to be happy for you says more about them than it does about you or your worth. Focus on surrounding yourself, both on and offline, with people who genuinely support you. Let the frenemies sulk in their sad little corners of the internet.

Mute or unfollow them if you need to. Don’t give their behavior power over you or make you second guess the parts of your awesome life you choose to share. Post with confidence and nurture real friendships that don’t depend on likes or follows.

They Don’t Actually Use Social Media Much

Some people just aren’t big social media users. Maybe they only check it occasionally or prefer to use it passively, just scrolling without much interaction. Don’t take it personally – their social media habits say more about them than you.

While it can sting when friends don’t engage with your posts, try not to make assumptions. There are many possible reasons beyond their interest in you or your life. Perhaps they’ve been busy, distracted, or just logged off.

Rather than viewing their lack of likes as a reflection on your worth or popularity, focus on the friends who do actively support you. Appreciate those who take the time to comment, like and share – they’re your true social squad.

Your Content Doesn’t Align With Their Interests

Your digital frenemies—the “friends” who never seem to like or engage with anything you post—probably aren’t actually your enemies. More likely, your content just doesn’t align with their interests or priorities.

Some people only use social media to share updates about major life events, while others post more casual day-to-day activities and thoughts. If you’re the latter and they’re the former, your posts probably seem trivial or spammy to them. Don’t take it personally—it’s really just a difference in how you each use the platforms.

They’re Just Too Busy To Engage

In some cases, your digital frenemies may like you just fine in person but barely glance at social media. Work, family, and life responsibilities leave little time for liking and commenting on posts. Don’t assume their lack of engagement translates to a lack of interest in your friendship. Your real-world interactions are a much better barometer of the strength of your connection.

The reasons for their behavior usually have little to do with you personally. Try not to let the lack of likes and comments from your digital frenemies get you down or damage your self-esteem. Focus instead on the friends who actively support you on social media—and even more so, nurture the relationships that exist beyond the bounds of cyberspace.

They Prefer More Private Interactions

Some friends just aren’t big on public displays of digital affection. They prefer to show they care through private messages, calls or in-person meetups rather than liking and commenting on your social media posts. While this may seem petty or childish, it actually reveals a lot about a friendship, no matter your age.

These friends would rather have a genuine heart-to-heart than click a “like” button. They believe true friendship means making the time for meaningful conversations and experiences together – not just passively following each other’s curated social media lives.

They May Not Realize Likes Matter To You

Some friends just aren’t big “likers” on social media. It’s nothing personal—they may just not realize how much those little hearts and thumbs up mean to you.

As insignificant as it seems, liking posts is a way for friends to show they care about what you share. When someone never likes your updates, it can make you feel like they don’t support you or aren’t interested in your life. This feeling tends to amplify with age, even for the most self-assured adults.

Rather than confronting your digital frenemies, try talking to them in person. Say something casual like, “Just wondering if you’ve been seeing the pictures from my trip? I’d love to hear what you think!” This gives them a chance to explain their habits and how they feel about their social media interactions. They may not have realized their double taps mean so much.

They Secretly Like You

Some people follow you on social media but never like or comment on your posts because they don’t want others to know they enjoy your content or have a crush on you.

Some friends prefer to lurk in the shadows, following you from afar without engaging. They may enjoy your posts but don’t want their interest revealed to you or others.

Perhaps they are afraid of appearing “too interested.” They worry liking posts may seem weird or creepy. Or, they want to stay mysterious. Some people enjoy subtlety and holding their cards close.

They Are Not Real Friends

If someone doesn’t like some of your social media posts, it doesn’t always mean they don’t like you as a friend. But if someone NEVER likes any of your posts, even though they’re still looking at your stories, then you may start wondering if they really see you as a close friend.

They Don’t Actually Support You

Real friends lift you up and cheer you on. They like and comment on big life events and milestones to show they care. If someone repeatedly ignores major highlights you share, they probably aren’t genuinely interested in your well-being or happiness.

They’re Only “Frenemies”

We all have “frenemies” – those quasi-friends we keep at a distance. They want to know what’s going on in your life but don’t actually wish you well. If someone frequently views your stories and posts but never engages, they may fall into this category. Consider removing them from your followers list or simply ignore them.

They’re Too Self-Absorbed

Some people are just overly self-focused and lack empathy. They scroll through social media but only notice updates relating to themselves. Don’t take their apathy personally – they treat everyone that way. While it’s annoying, try not to let their self-centeredness upset you.

The Relationship Has Grown Apart

In some cases, a lack of likes or comments signifies you’ve simply grown apart or no longer share a close bond. This often happens naturally over time as life circumstances change and you have less in common. Rather than confronting them, accept the friendship has run its course and move on.

Final Words

The real reasons why some of your friends never seem to hit that “like” button or leave a quick comment on your social posts. Maybe they’re jealous of how your life seems to be more glamorous or they feel inadequate in some way. Perhaps your posts make them feel bad about themselves or they see you as competition.

Whatever the reasons, try not to take their lack of interaction personally. Focus on surrounding yourself with people who genuinely support and care about you – both on and offline. Don’t let a few digital frenemies diminish your light or make you second guess what you share. Post with confidence and continue being your authentic self.

Denisa October 26, 2023 October 26, 2023

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