Geminis are usually the life of the party, but their mood seems to have taken a turn for the worse. What’s wrong with them? As one of the most social and upbeat signs, it can be tough to tell when a Gemini is feeling depressed. But there are some signs it’s getting to them.
If any of these signs line up with how your friend or partner has been acting, you may want to give them a text. Shoot them a message and see how they’re really doing.
Withdrawing From Social Interactions
If your Gemini friend suddenly starts pulling away from everyone, it’s probably a sign that they’re feeling a bit down. Geminis usually love being around others and getting stimulation from social interactions. They thrive on having plans with friends and family.
When depressed, though, they tend to want to be alone more and avoid making plans. The cheerful, fun-loving Gemini you know may seem a bit irritable, critical, or impatient. It’s not like them at all!
Staying connected with others can really help lift their mood, so do little things to show you care about them. Shoot them a quick text with some encouraging words. Maybe bring over their favorite snack to eat. Or give them a call just to chat for a bit. Having a good friend or partner like you around for support can make a big difference during these times. Trust me, even small gestures to let them know you’re thinking of them can brighten their day.
Look At Their Hands
When a Gemini man or woman seems more fidgety or nervous than usual, they may be struggling with their mental health. I’ve noticed one sign is nail biting or other self-harming behaviors with their hands.
You see, Geminis are said to be ruled by the hands, so not taking good care of them can show they’re under a lot of stress. Excessive nail biting and picking at cuticles or scabs are sometimes coping mechanisms when someone feels overwhelmed.
The next time you see your Gemini friend doing that, gently offer them a stress ball or fidget toy to play with instead. Suggesting a healthy alternative may help give their hands something constructive to do and take their mind off of what’s bothering them.
Increased Irritability And Mood Swings
Normally easygoing and carefree, a depressed Gemini may snap or lash out at others over small annoyances. They may snap at little things that annoy them, even if they don’t usually care.
It’s because Gemini is so quick-witted and impatient. They have no patience for anything they see as stupid or inefficient. This includes themselves when they’re feeling down. So, if a depressed Gemini lashes out, take a deep breath before responding. Count to 10 to calm down.
Communication is Gemini’s thing, too. They love a good debate or witty conversation. But depression can cause wild mood swings. A Gemini may go from engaged and excited one minute to withdrawn and uninterested the next. It’s hard on them. Their natural duality gets amplified when they’re depressed, with more extreme highs and lows.
They’re Radio Silent On Social Media
A depressed Gemini typically goes radio silent on social media. They usually love sharing details of their lives and staying connected to friends online. However, if their posts have slowed down or stopped altogether, it could indicate feelings of sadness or lack of motivation.
While everyone needs a break from social media sometimes, an abrupt change in behavior or withdrawal from digital connections could point to feelings of depression or loneliness in this typically outgoing sign.
Geminis are social creatures, so lack of interaction and sharing details of their experiences with others may lead to feelings of isolation or a downturn in mood and outlook.
They Stop Doing Things They Love Doing
One of the biggest signs that a Gemini may be feeling down is when they just aren’t as engaged in the things they usually love. Geminis are such curious and fun-loving people – they get a real kick out of learning new things, hanging out with others, and exploring their many interests.
So if your Gemini friend or partner suddenly isn’t as into the activities that normally get them excited, that’s definitely something to pay attention to.
Maybe they used to really enjoy going out with their metal detector. They even spent a good amount of money on gear for it. But for some reason, they don’t do the things they used to do anymore. Or maybe they were really into tennis at one point. You’d always see them at the tennis court. Now, all of a sudden, they’re just not there anymore.
It’s also possible they don’t read as much as they used to. They might not be as excited to make plans with friends either. And those hobbies or side projects they were super passionate about before, they don’t seem that interested in them now.
When a typically lively sign like Gemini starts losing their motivation and joy for things, it’s a sign that something isn’t quite right. Their enthusiasm seems to be slipping.
My Advice
If any of those Gemini signs sound familiar to someone you know, you may want to give them a call. As an air sign, Geminis love talking things through. Reach out and let them know you’re there if they want to chat. Tell them you’re a good listener if they need someone to listen. That thoughtful gesture will go a long way with a Gemini. Communication is big for them, so taking the time to connect could really help lift their spirits.
Read also: How to deal with Gemini mood swings
