You know that charming social butterfly who can switch moods in an instant? As a fellow Gemini woman, I get how complex we can be. One minute, we’re feeling good, and the next, we’re down. Happy one moment and unhappy the next. To be real, we’re not always the easiest signs to be with.
But before you write off your Gemini girl, hear me out. We don’t just get moody for no reason. There are usually some triggers behind it.
You Have To Understand What Triggers Us
Moods are funny things. We all have good days and bad days, times when we feel up and times when we feel down. But most of the time, there’s a reason, even if we can’t always see it right away. It’s kind of like snakes – they won’t bite you just cause they’re bored and have nothing else to do. Snakes bite when they feel threatened or scared. Our moods are the same way.
Boredom
If you find your Gemini lady seems a bit moody when you’re watching a movie together, maybe it’s time for a change of plans. She may just not be in the mood for a movie right now. Why not suggest doing something more interactive? You could play a game, do a puzzle, or find another fun activity you can do together.
And if you’re on a trip with her and she’s feeling under the weather or just low-energy, don’t be afraid to ask how you can liven things up. Even just getting some fresh air with a short walk might do the trick. Or see if there’s something small you can do in your lodging that provides a change of scenery, like looking through local guides or playing background music.
The best thing is finding something fun for her to do, something that puts her in a good mood. When she’s just sitting around with nothing to keep her busy, it can be rough being around her. She just gets in such a funk. It’s like everything is the worst possible thing.
Lack of Freedom
A Gemini woman really needs her freedom. If she starts feeling confined or controlled, look out! She gets upset real quick if someone is trying to tell her what to do or not do. Freedom is so important to her.
So if she’s acting moody, take a look in the mirror too. Are you being too restrictive? Not letting her do her own thing? She won’t put up with that for long. Give the lady some space, and don’t try to rein her in. That’ll just make the fire on the roof even hotter! If you want things to chill out, you gotta loosen the reins and let her fly free.
Stress
Stress and anxiety can really do a number on a Gemini girl. We tend to feel everything so strongly with our mercurial nature. When life gets overwhelming, it’s easy for our moods to swing all over the place.
And it makes sense when you think about it. Our brain and nerves are what define us, Geminis. They are our ruling body parts, according to astrology. The brain is how we think and feel, and the nerves are how all those thoughts and feelings spread throughout the body. So when stress has us on edge, it hits us right where it hurts.
The best way to handle a Gemini woman with mood swings is to simply check in on her. Ask how she’s doing and if everything is okay. She may need some alone time to think, vent, and decompress. But often just talking it out can help us process what’s bothering us.
Don’t just leave her be if she seems down. We appreciate someone taking the time to see what’s up. Offer to listen without judgment if she wants to vent. Or ask if there’s any small way you can lend a hand to take something off her plate. She’ll feel cared for knowing you’re making the effort, even if she insists on handling it herself for now.
Silence Is Not The Way
The absolute worst thing you can do is to go quiet and say nothing when your Gemini woman is moody. I know from experience, believe me. The silence will eat away at her inside. She needs communication to work through what’s bothering her and get herself feeling better again. Even if you don’t have the perfect thing to say, just talking it out helps.
Ask her questions to get her talking about how she’s feeling without being accusatory. Let her vent some of those emotions. She’ll appreciate the effort to understand her perspective and support her, even if you don’t necessarily agree.
Do’s & Don’ts
Do be understanding. Gemini women can’t help the way their minds work, shifting from one thought to the next rapidly. Have patience and try not to take her moods personally.
Don’t try to fix her. When she has a bad mood, she likely just wants you to listen, not come up with solutions. Provide a sympathetic ear and let her work through her feelings on her own time.
Do distract her. A change of scenery or activity can sometimes pull a Gemini woman out of a funk.
Don’t take the bait. Gemini women sometimes say provocative things when in a mood just to get a reaction. Try not to engage or fight, as this will only prolong and intensify the mood swings.
