You know how it goes. You’re casually chatting with your Gemini man, enjoying a glass of wine and some quality time together after a long day. Out of nowhere, something triggers an unexpected wave of emotion in you. Before you know it, tears start streaming down your face as you try in vain to hold them back.
Now what? How will your fun-loving, adventure-seeking Gemini react to this unforeseen waterworks display? His reaction may surprise you.
Gemini Man’s Personality: The Twin Within
The Gemini man has a dual nature – he can be social and outgoing one minute, then retreat into himself the next. This is because Gemini is represented by the twins Castor and Pollux.
The Gemini man is constantly balancing between two poles. He seeks constant stimulation, variety, and communication but also values his independence and alone time. His mind is always working, generating new ideas, making connections, and seeking out information.
One moment, the Gemini man is the life of the party, charming everyone in the room. The next, he’s closing the door behind him as he retreats into his private world. His restless mind demands constant excitement and entertainment, but it also needs periods of solitude to recharge.
The Gemini man’s dual nature also means his emotions tend to fluctuate and change rapidly. His moods can switch from excited to pensive to playful in the course of a single conversation. He may laugh heartily one minute, only to become subdued the next.
What To Expect When Crying In Front of Him
When a Gemini man’s partner cries in front of him, he can struggle with how to react appropriately. His emotions may feel unsettled by such a raw display of feeling. However, a Gemini man also cares deeply for those he loves.
You’ll See His Empathetic And Caring Side
Once he overcomes his initial discomfort, his empathy and caring nature will shine through. He will provide a listening ear, offer comfort and support, and do his best to cheer up his loved one. His playful, lighthearted spirit can help lift the mood and brighten the day.
You may be surprised how someone who seems really chatty and not that caring can suddenly turn around and be very empathetic. If you’re feeling down, they’ll do whatever they can to cheer you up. Maybe get you a glass of water or some napkins. Or give you a kiss on the forehead and hold your hand. And if you smoke, they’ll even light your cigarette for you.
He’ll Talk A Lot
Geminis are super curious people who want to understand what’s got you feeling down. He’ll probably ask you a bunch of questions about what’s bothering you and try to figure out exactly what the root of the issue is. And he’ll definitely try to do a lot of talking, maybe tell you some stories, or even bring up something positive to think about.
I know when you’re crying, it might not seem like chatting is going to solve everything. But he’s not doing it to upset you more, he’s doing it to help you live in the present moment and forget about whatever made you tear up. When he’s talking with you, he’s trying to erase from your mind what’s bothering you and get you feeling happy again.
He’ll Offer A Shoulder To Cry On
While Geminis can come across as detached at times, seeing you cry may awaken his nurturing side. He could offer a shoulder to cry on, give you his full attention and affection, and try to comfort you.
He might even squeeze you very tight and say something encouraging like “I am not going to let you go till you stop,” or “If you don’t quit crying, I’m gonna start too!”. Let him comfort you – he really wants to help you get through the rough stuff. Whatever he does, it’ll come from a place of love and caring about you.
Crying Makes Gemini Men Uneasy
Seeing you cry makes a Gemini man uneasy because emotions make him uncomfortable (he’s an air sign, after all), but he cares deeply for you and wants you to be happy.
A Gemini man is not naturally in tune with emotions, but he still has empathy for your feelings. If he sees you crying, his first thought is going to be, “How can I solve this? Make things better again!”
Some Geminis are like emotional sponges, too. He’ll comfort you to calm you down. But then he’ll need to bail for a bit, a few hours, maybe. Just to decompress and process everything you told him. Gets all that pressure and feelings out so he can feel normal again.
Geminis Have Emotions, Too!
You know what people say about Geminis. “They’re fake, they’ve got two faces, they don’t have any emotions, they’re cold.” But that’s not true at all! Geminis definitely get a bad rap. Sure, they may come across as a little hard to read sometimes since they’ve got such active, curious minds. But that doesn’t mean they don’t feel things deeply.
Geminis are definitely not emotionless or uncaring. If anything, they care too much. Sometimes, they care so much that they need to step away for a bit to sort through everything. They really think things through and feel things deeply. And seeing someone crying in front of them actually hurts them, even if they won’t say it. They just need some time alone to process their emotions. But don’t get it twisted – Geminis have big hearts, they just have a lot going on up in their heads, too.