I think I know what you’re going through. You spill your coffee on yourself in the morning, get stuck in traffic, and have an awkward chat with your boss. By lunch, you’re thinking everything is against you, and the universe has got it out for you. Then, when you get home to your empty place, you start believing the whole world is against you, and you’ll be single forever.
But what if that’s not really how it is? What if instead of the universe hating you, it’s just reflecting back your own bad vibes and negative thoughts? I know it sounds weird, but the universe doesn’t actually hate anyone. It’s just mirroring what we put out there.
The Universe Is Neutral – It Doesn’t Have Emotions
The universe itself is neutral. It doesn’t hate you or wish you ill. It doesn’t care if you’re single, if your twin flame is married, or if you’re struggling with money. It simply responds to the vibrations and energy you put out. Your thoughts, feelings, and actions – whether positive or negative – are received and reflected back to you.
What seems like the universe plotting against you is really just the law of attraction in action. When you’re feeling upset, pessimistic, or resentful, you attract more of the same. The universe is giving you exactly what you’re putting out there.
I know it seems unfair when good people are struggling while others get richer. But the law of attraction is really at work here. Just because you pray or do kind things doesn’t guarantee success – think of rich folks getting richer. Do they always deserve it? Probably not. But their mindsets are different. They don’t stress over feeling like the universe hates them or say, “I’m so poor; do I deserve this?”.
Your thoughts are powerful things. If you learn to focus them positively, you’ll see the universe wants to help you, too. It was never against you – you just need to meet it halfway. And how do you do that? By shifting your mindset.
Your Thoughts And Vibrations Shape Your Reality
The universe is simply an impartial set of laws that respond to the vibrations and frequencies you emit. If it seems like the universe hates you, it’s really just a reflection of your own negative thoughts and beliefs. But do you know who has the power to change those thoughts and shift your reality? You!
Your thoughts have energy and power, creating ripples that attract experiences, people, and events that are in vibrational harmony with them. So, when you think gloomy, defeatist thoughts, that is the reality you will perceive and live in. However, when you shift your mindset to more positive, optimistic thoughts, your world will transform to match that new vibration.
The universe doesn’t single you out or have some vendetta against you. It’s an equal opportunity responder, reflecting back to you what you put out there.
My Advice
Keep an eye on those thoughts – watch out for any negative patterns. When those creep in, try reframing them in a more helpful way. Surround yourself with people and content that lift you up instead of bringing you down. Also, make sure to express gratitude every day for the good things in your life, no matter how small.
Speaking of gratitude, I was just thinking about my coworker Sarah. She used to drive to work each day stressing about finding a parking spot, circling for over an hour, sometimes hoping someone would leave. One day, I told her to stop worrying so much – instead, I suggested when she heads out that, she’ll find a spot waiting for her. One day, I told her, “Before you leave, say that you are so grateful for the free parking spot.” Well, wouldn’t you know – the next time, she called me excited, saying not one but two open spaces were available! Just changing her mindset a little made a big difference.
The more you focus on positivity, the more positive things will come your way. Your vibration will rise to attract what you really want. Don’t get down on yourself – the universe isn’t against you. It doesn’t hate you. It’s just showing you where your thinking was blocking blessings. Switch up those thoughts and see how your world changes too.