I know how it feels when things seem to go wrong all day. You spill your coffee, get stuck in traffic, and have an awkward chat with your boss. By lunch, you’re thinking everything is against you. Then, when you get home alone, you start to feel like the whole world is against you, and you’ll always be single. It’s like one bad thing leads to another, just snowballing.
But what if that’s not really how it is? What if instead of the universe being against you, it’s just reflecting back your own bad vibes and negative thoughts? I know it sounds weird, but the universe doesn’t actually hate anyone. It just mirrors what we put out there. Think of the universe like a computer – it acts how you program it, for better or worse.
The Universe Is Neutral
The universe doesn’t actually care about any of us individually. It’s neutral – it doesn’t wish you good or bad. Your circumstances don’t depend on whether you’re single or struggling with money.
The universe simply responds to the energy you put out there. If you’re feeling upset, negative or resentful, you’ll probably attract more of the same stuff. But if you can shift your mindset to be more positive and optimistic, you may find things start looking up for you, too.
I know it’s not always fair when some people seem to have it easy while others struggle. But your thoughts really do shape your reality. Just because you’re a good person doesn’t guarantee success. Rich people don’t always deserve it, either. But many think differently than folks stressed over feeling like the universe is against them.
Your thoughts are powerful – focus them on positive things and meeting the universe halfway with a good attitude. That may be all it takes to see some better days ahead. You might be surprised at how things start looking up and feeling less like the universe is against you.
Your Thoughts And Vibrations Shape Your Reality
The universe simply follows natural laws that respond to your thoughts and feelings. If it seems like the universe hates you, it’s really just reflecting your own negative thoughts and beliefs. So if you feel like the universe hates you, it’s probably because you’re thinking some negative things about yourself deep down. If you were feeling happier, I don’t think the idea of a “hating universe” would even cross your mind. But you have the power to change those thoughts and shift your reality!
Your thoughts create energy that attracts experiences, people, and events that match your thoughts. So, if you think gloomy, defeatist thoughts, that will be your reality. However, when you shift to more positive, optimistic thoughts, your world will transform to match the new way you think.
The universe doesn’t single you out or have it out for you. It just reflects back what you send out. The universe doesn’t hate you, it simply responds to your thoughts and feelings. It shows you clearly who you are.
My Advice
Keep an eye on those thoughts – watch out for any negative patterns. When those creep in, try reframing them in a more helpful way. Surround yourself with people and content that lift you up instead of bringing you down. Also, make sure to express gratitude every day for the good things in your life, no matter how small.
Speaking of gratitude, I was just thinking about my coworker Sarah. She used to drive to work each day stressing about finding a parking spot, circling for over an hour, sometimes hoping someone would leave. One day, I told her to stop worrying so much – instead, I suggested when she heads out that, she’ll find a spot waiting for her. One day, I told her, “Before you leave, say that you are so grateful for the free parking spot.” Well, wouldn’t you know – the next time, she called me excited, saying not one but two open spaces were available! Just changing her mindset a little made a big difference.
The more you focus on positivity, the more positive things will come your way. Your vibration will rise to attract what you really want. Don’t get down on yourself – the universe isn’t against you. It doesn’t hate you. It’s just showing you where your thinking was blocking blessings. Switch up those thoughts and see how your world changes, too.
