When your twin flame ghosts you, it may feel like the end of the world. I know what I am talking about. One minute, you’re gazing into each other’s eyes, seeing into each other’s souls, feeling that deep cosmic connection – and the next minute, poof, they’ve vanished without a trace. Blocked on social media, not returning calls or texts, just disappeared from the face of the earth like a ghost.
After all, you’ve been through together, all the signs from the universe that you were meant to be, how could they just cut you off without warning or explanation? You’re left confused, hurt, wondering what you did wrong and what’s to become of your destiny now. The pain and longing feel unbearable.
I am here to walk you through what to do now that your twin flame has ghosted and blocked you.
Why Your Twin Flame Ghosted You
Chances are, your twin flame ghosted you because the connection became too intense for them to handle. Twin flame relationships can be deeply passionate and overwhelming, stirring up emotions and personal issues at a rapid rate. This likely triggered their fight-or-flight response, causing them to run away from the relationship.
I know their reaction may have stung a bit. But try not to take it close to your heart. How someone else acts usually says more about their own issues than it does about you. Maybe they’ve got some emotional baggage, or they just don’t love themselves as much as they could.
And I know you put a lot of stock in signs from the universe. But you have to believe everything happens for a reason and on its own schedule. Twin flame relationships are more of a spiritual journey than your typical relationship. It’s not going to follow the normal rules.
Don’t dwell on what went wrong or ruminate on the separation. This will only make you feel worse and delay your healing. Instead, keep your thoughts positive and continue moving forward. While it’s painful, try looking at this ghosting as an opportunity to transform yourself in amazing ways. Your twin flame may return once they see the light within you shining brighter than ever before.
Coping With The Pain And Confusion of Being Ghosted
The confusion and hurt is just overwhelming. I went through it myself. My advice? Give yourself time to mourn the loss of contact. If you need to cry, don’t hold back your tears – let it all out. Talking to other open-minded people about your experience can help, or journaling your feelings. Just do what helps you process the pain in a healthy way.
Don’t waste time thinking about what you could have done differently or second-guessing yourself. Like I said, how your twin acted says more about them than you. It isn’t about you at all. Focus on yourself instead of obsessing over them. Take a step back and look at the relationship from a more objective perspective.
Everything Happens For A Reason
You know, everything happens for a reason. Just because something ends doesn’t mean it’s over for good. There’s a chance they’ll unblock you, and you can reconnect. But for that to happen, you need to let it go.
Stop worrying about them and stop having expectations. Don’t keep checking if they unblocked you or not. Also, they should quit stalking their friends and family on social media. I’m not saying you have to forget about them completely. But you can’t keep obsessing over it in circles.
Like the law of attraction says, you’ve to become what you want before you get it. So stop chasing after them or being obsessed. If you can detach yourself from it, the pressure will lift. And that may increase the chances they unblock you and you two can reunite.
When my twin flame blocked me, it took a month to release them fully. I accepted that they blocked me because they wanted to. I stopped trying to find faults with myself, realizing I didn’t do anything wrong. As I quit thinking about them and stalking their other accounts I wasn’t blocked from, I felt way lighter. After a while, once the air had cleared, they actually reached back out to me.
Final Words
If you’re going through a tough time right now with your relationship ending, I want you to remember that nothing lasts forever, and there’s usually a reason for everything, even if we don’t understand it. Maybe you said or did something that wasn’t right, or maybe they just weren’t ready for all the intensity that comes with a twin flame bond. Whatever the case, your breakup happened for a reason.
If you truly believe in something as spiritual as twin flames, you’ve got to believe that it all happens for a purpose. So dry those tears, hold your head high, and keep on keeping on. If you’re really meant to be together, you will find a way to reconnect down the road. And even if not, then this separation needed to occur because your actual twin flame is still out there waiting for you.
