This aspect between two important points in your natal chart reveals a lot about your personality and inner self. Though it can represent struggles between your outward persona and repressed desires, it also gifts intuitive talents.
Ascendant And Lilith In Astrology
Your Ascendant, or rising sign, represents how you present yourself to the world and the lens through which you view life. Lilith, on the other hand, is more about your shadow side, the deep parts you don’t show everyone. When they form a square in your natal birth chart, it means there’s friction between your outer self and your inner world. How you present is always bumping up against what you really want on the inside. There’s a clash between how you portray yourself and your deeper needs and drives.
Unwanted Attention
With Lilith square Ascendant, you tend to get a lot of unwanted attention from others. Others find you sexually attractive or just somehow special. Imagine you are on a girl’s trip, walking down the street. With the Ascendant square Lilith aspect, you’re probably the one who always seems to catch people’s eye – even when you’re not trying! Men will be yelling things and making passes just because of your energy.
You may have a nice appearance, eyes, or just a special aura about you. Even if you can’t see it yourself, there’s something unique about who you are. People often say you’re special or different in a good way. They tell you there’s no one else like you. Even after a relationship ends, that person might say they’ll never meet someone as unique as you again.
The good thing is that you’re a fighter and internally strong. Once you understand this aspect and why all this happens, you won’t take it personally. People will always find you special. But that doesn’t mean you have to settle or let anyone take advantage of you.
Challenges
You may feel taken advantage of or that people are using you. Other women could become jealous because of your attractiveness or special aura. This may make you feel lonely as if nobody truly understands or supports you.
While squares aren’t always bad, you’ll likely deal with unwanted sexual attention. People may see you as an object rather than a person. You could even face sexual harassment or abuse. Others may talk openly about sex around you or directly harass you.
Even in same-sex relationships, people may say you don’t know what you want in love. My friend is in a lesbian relationship, yet many say she doesn’t know what she wants or that men don’t see her as real because they think she hasn’t met the right man.
With this astrological aspect, men may want you to be more traditional, like a housewife serving men. But women with this need to find their inner strength and embrace their femininity on their own terms.
My Advice
Don’t be afraid of this intense energy, learn to use it. Let Lilith bring out your sacred sensuality, primal nature, and inner wisdom. If you were always the center of attention, now you understand why. But that doesn’t mean you have to settle or let people take advantage. Learn to set boundaries and don’t take things too personally. You have a unique, unexplainable spirit about you. You’re a “witch.”
