Perhaps you’ve just moved into a new apartment, or you’re rearranging your existing house. Or maybe you’re lying in bed, in front of a mirror, wondering if it’s actually a good or bad idea. Let me be clear—placing a mirror facing the bed is a bad idea because it can disrupt your sleep, and if you’re superstitious, it might even capture your soul!
Superstitions
The deal with not having mirrors face the bed goes back a long time in lots of cultures. In China, India, and Europe, they all had their own versions of it being a bad idea.
- In Europe, people used to think that mirrors are portals to other worlds. They thought if you slept in front of one, not only would you have bad dreams but maybe even wake up somewhere else!
- In China, they had a different idea. Their belief was that if you snoozed in front of a mirror, it would double all your problems. Whatever issues you had in life would be multiplied in the reflection.
- In India, people would cover up or wrap any mirrors in their homes after sunset. They were worried that leaving mirrors exposed at night could let your soul escape from your body while you’re sleeping!
Paranormal Explanation
Throughout history, people believed that mirrors could actually trap souls inside of them. Even in ancient books, mirrors were described as being portals or gateways to other dimensions. While we don’t really know why, it’s probably because back then we didn’t fully understand how mirrors work.
Because of these paranormal beliefs about mirrors, if you put one in front of your bed, it could cause problems while you sleep. Your soul may get caught in the mirror or disrupted trying to rest. This could then make you feel uneasy or have bad dreams.
When we sleep, our body rests but our soul goes elsewhere. However, if a mirror is facing your bed, it could trap your soul and take it to another place. Or it might stop your soul from being able to move freely, keeping it stuck in your body when you need to relax.
Negative Energy
When it comes to feng shui, it’s all about balancing people and their surroundings. A big part of that is something called “qi,” which is energy flow. Feng shui believes it’s not good to have a mirror facing the bed because it may interfere with good energy circulating. That could then lead to problems with your health or relationships.
Feng shui recommends setting up your bedroom for maximum relaxation. This means using calm, cozy colors and adding nice touches like candles and comfy pillows. It’s also about arranging everything around and in front of the bed in a harmonious way.
If you put a mirror in front of your bed, that’s basically asking for trouble. It can negatively impact both the quality of your sleep and your overall vibes.
Infidelity Concerns
Having a mirror in the bedroom that shows your bed isn’t great for relationships. Some people think it could cause problems with cheating or other people “butting in”, since it’s like letting outside influences into your private time together.
Spiritually speaking, if you and your partner can see yourselves in the mirror while in bed, it seems like there are four people there – or really, four souls sharing the space. And that’s definitely not what you’re going for! Who needs extra souls hanging around while you’re trying to bond with your person?
Cultural Significance
- Chinese Feng Shui: Feng shui believes that mirrors create a sense of duality, which could disrupt the calmness required in a bedroom. A mirror facing the bed is thought to amplify negative energy rather than reflecting it away. So, feng shui strongly advises against having a mirror facing your bed.
- Indian Beliefs: In Indian culture, mirrors are sometimes covered at night or when someone is ill to prevent bad spirits from entering through them. A mirror facing the bed might be seen as an open portal for negative entities.
- European Traditions: European superstitions associate mirrors with the mystical and the unknown. Placing a mirror across from the bed might have been thought to invite unwanted energies or spirits into the sleeping space.
I Can’t Get Rid of The Mirror – What To Do?
Mirrors can be a little spooky, especially at night. Apparently, when we’re sleeping our soul can detach from our body and slip into the mirror world. That’s when spirits and other paranormal things are able to come through. No wonder so many people have bad dreams or don’t sleep well if there’s a mirror in their bedroom! And some even report night terrors, sleepwalking, and not feeling rested.
- Cover the mirror: If moving the mirror isn’t an option, consider covering it with a cloth or curtain before bedtime. This helps neutralize the mirror’s reflecting properties while maintaining the aesthetic of the room.
- Mirror placement: If you must have a mirror in the bedroom, ensure it’s positioned where it doesn’t directly reflect the bed. Opt for wall-mounting at an angle or on a side wall.
- Use mirrored furniture thoughtfully: If your bedroom includes mirrored furniture, be mindful of their placement. Position them so that they don’t reflect the bed directly.
- Balance and harmony: Focus on feng shui principles that encourage balance and harmony in the bedroom. Use soothing colors and comfortable bedding, and declutter the space to encourage positive energy flow.
My Advice
Mirrors in the bedroom can disrupt your sleep or cause bad dreams. If you have one you can’t remove, at least cover it up overnight with a sheet or something.
If you can move the mirror, places like the kitchen, dining room, or hallway work better. Those areas are thought to attract good luck and wealth into the home. Just be careful if putting one in the hallway – don’t put it right across from the door.
If you have an extra mirror lying around, I’d recommend setting it up in one of those other rooms instead of keeping it in the bedroom. You might as well put it to use in a space where it can have positive effects!
