Some people are wired to take charge, while others are more comfortable giving, supporting, or surrendering. In astrology, a few signs lean naturally toward the submissive side, and it shows in their relationships, in the bedroom, and even in how they move through life.
Here are the three zodiac signs most likely to slip into a submissive role.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
Pisces lives in their imagination more than any other sign. They crave escape, fantasy, and a sense of merging with others. Because of this, they often slide into a passive role, letting others lead while they dissolve into the background.
In love, Pisces is famously self-sacrificing. They want their partner to be happy at all costs, sometimes forgetting their own needs completely. They give, they forgive, and they surrender, sometimes even when the relationship is toxic. This eagerness to please can make them blind to red flags.
Pisces women, in particular, are known for their softness and willingness to put their partner first. Their joy often comes from serving, supporting, and loving without limits. But the same quality that makes them so compassionate can also make them vulnerable to being taken for granted.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Cancer is ruled by the Moon, which makes them deeply emotional and sensitive to the needs of others. Their instinct is to nurture, to comfort, and to protect. This is why they often slip into a submissive role in relationships… they want to keep the peace and make their partner feel safe.
But this softness comes at a cost. Cancer sometimes tolerates unhealthy situations for the sake of family, children, or shared history. They may sacrifice their own happiness just to keep a relationship intact. It’s not because they’re weak… it’s because they value emotional security so much that they struggle to let go.
When Cancer women or men submit, it’s usually out of love, not fear. Still, they must remember that protecting themselves is just as important as protecting others. Without clear boundaries, their selflessness can quickly turn into self-neglect.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Virgo’s submissiveness comes from a very different place: perfectionism. They hold themselves to such high standards that they end up trying to prove their worth by serving others. Virgos want to be useful, helpful, and dependable. Sometimes, that desire to be “the perfect partner” makes them put everyone else’s needs above their own.
In relationships, Virgo can surprise you. Even if they seem bossy or detail-oriented in daily life, when they love someone, they often shift into a more submissive role. They’ll go out of their way to please their partner, even sacrificing their own comfort to show loyalty and devotion.
Among the zodiac, Virgo men are often considered the most submissive males. They may not admit it outright, but they’ll quietly adapt themselves to please their partner, hoping to prove their love through service and dedication.
Truth You Can’t Ignore
Being submissive isn’t automatically a flaw. It can show how deeply you care, how much you’re willing to support and adapt for the people you love. But if you’re a Pisces, Cancer, or Virgo, you may need to ask yourself: are you giving because you want to, or because you feel you have to?
The healthiest relationships are built on balance. Submitting can be beautiful when it comes from love and trust, but it should never come at the cost of your voice or your sense of self.
