If you’ve been chatting with that gorgeous Gemini woman and now you’re wondering where things stand, take a step back and read this first before you get your hopes up for something more.
Geminis are notoriously hard to pin down, and just because she seems interested doesn’t mean she wants to be more than friends. As a Gemini woman myself, I know the signs to watch out for.
She Keeps The Conversation Light And Surface-Level
If she only talks about surface-level topics like her hobbies, friends, TV, TikTok, or work but avoids deeper conversations about her goals, dreams, or personal struggles, she probably just sees you as a friend.
Typically, when a Gemini woman just wants to be friends, she:
- Doesn’t share meaningful details about herself. If you don’t really know what motivates her or what she’s passionate about, she’s likely keeping you at arm’s length.
- She says you’re like a brother to her. If she’s openly referring to you as the brother she never had, you can be sure she just sees you as a platonic friend or confidant. Take the hint before you get hurt!
- Makes excuses when you suggest meeting in person. If she frequently says she’s too busy to get together but still messages you, she may prefer to keep things strictly online or over the phone.
- Doesn’t flirt or compliment you. If she treats you like one of the girls and doesn’t engage in any light, playful teasing or flirting, she’s not interested in anything romantic.
She Doesn’t Remember Things About You
A Gemini woman who is in love with someone remembers every little detail about the person she loves – from their favorite food to the stories they have told her. However, if she only sees you as a friend, she will not make the effort to commit details about you to memory.
While Geminis, in general, have a poor memory for mundane facts, they make an exception for people who truly capture their heart. If she fails to remember things you have told her, important dates, or details about your life, it is likely a sign that she does not see you in a romantic light.
Did she forget your favorite song or the name of your cat? This likely means you have not made a deep enough impression on her heart for her to remember.
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She’s Not Often Available
She’s tough to make plans with. She’s always on the go and never seems to have time to get together. This Gemini woman really values her freedom and likes to do her own thing. Unless she’s really into you, she is not going to change up her schedule for nobody. She’s totally independent and needs her own space.
Her busy social calendar is always full, and you’re not a priority. Don’t take it personally, Geminis tend to spread themselves thin and have a hard time committing to plans.
Sometimes, she also cancels or reschedules frequently, even at the last minute. Her ever-changing moods and whims mean her level of interest fluctuates. Today, she’s excited to hang out, but tomorrow, she has a new project she’s obsessed with.
She Doesn’t Show Signs of Romantic Interest
If a Gemini woman is into you, it’ll be very obvious. My friend used to say that even someone blind could tell when a Gemini woman is interested. What he meant is that when a Gemini falls for someone, everyone around can see it. Her eyes, voice, and body language will change. In fact, her whole routine and everyday life will change.
If she’s not initiating conversations, suggesting dates or activities, complimenting you, or finding excuses to touch you, she probably just sees you as a friend. Gemini women express themselves openly and honestly. If her behavior towards you is casual, indifferent or she talks about other men she’s interested in, chances are she only wants a platonic relationship.
She Wants To Spend Time With You In Groups, Not Just One-On-One
If she prefers hanging out in groups rather than alone with you, she likely sees you as just a friend. Geminis are social creatures and love being around lots of people, but if she consistently avoids solo plans with you in favor of group hangs, take the hint.
When she is interested in more than friendship, she will make time for quality one-on-one interactions where she can focus on connecting with you and only you. If she only tags along when you make group plans or invites you out when other friends will be there too, she probably considers you a casual friend or acquaintance and isn’t looking to get closer.
She Is Not Jealous of You
When a Gemini woman falls for someone, she wants that person all to herself. However, if a Gemini woman is not jealous when you talk to or spend time with other women, this is a telltale sign she just wants to be friends. Not feeling jealous indicates she does not see you in a romantic light.
For Gemini women, jealousy tends to arise from a place of love and desire. When they care deeply for someone, they do not want to share that person’s attention with others. So, if a Gemini woman is cool with you having female friends or going on dates, it likely means she does not have romantic feelings for you and just values you as a friend. Jealousy would imply she saw you as more than that. So, in this case, a lack of jealousy suggests she simply wants a platonic relationship.
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The Choice Is Yours
Now you have the information you need to determine whether she’s really romantically interested or just sees you as a casual friend or acquaintance. Either way, the ball is in your court – you can have an open and honest conversation about where you both stand or look for love with someone who will give you the type of relationship you’re really after.
