Ingabe ubuphupha ngeqhwa muva nje? Okhokho bethu bathi amandla okuphulukisa abangelwa iqhwa futhi bawasebenzisa emikhubeni ehlukahlukene yemilingo. Ngokwesibonelo, kwakunenkolelo yokuthi iqhwa liyasiza ngobuhlungu bamehlo futhi lingasusa ama-freckles noma ezinye izici ezincane zezimonyo.
Amaphupho ngeqhwa ayenakwa ngokukhethekile ngenxa yezakhiwo zawo zemilingo nezingokomoya, futhi uma ufuna incazelo yalo, usendaweni efanele. Ngezansi, uzothola incazelo engokomoya yephupho mayelana neqhwa.
Incazelo Engokomoya
Ngokomoya, ukuphupha ngeqhwa kusho ukuthethelelwa, ubungcwele, ukuthula nokuhlakanipha. Uma uphupha ngeqhwa, kuyisikhumbuzo esinamandla sokuthi noma yini obhekene nayo empilweni ingeyesikhashana.
Incazelo yaleli phupho ingase ihluke kuye ngombala weqhwa, inkathi lapho uphupha ngeqhwa, noma wenzani noma eqhweni.
Amanzi ngokwawo afanekisela imizwelo, futhi iqhwa, njengophawu lwephupho, okungamanzi ayiqhwa, lisho imizwelo “efriziwe”, izingxabano zangaphakathi, noma ukungakwazi ukuveza imizwa nemizwelo yakho.
Labo abangakaze babhekane neqhwa noma abahlala endaweni lapho kungakaze kukhithike khona kufanele banake kakhulu leli phupho. Kufanele futhi unake kakhulu uma uphupha ngeqhwa ehlobo.
Iqhwa eliwayo
Ukuphupha ngokuwa kweqhwa kusho ukuthi ekugcineni unqume ukwenza into obungenaso isibindi sokuyenza isikhathi eside noma ubulokhu uhlehlisa kuze kube kamuva. Uzoba nesibindi futhi ube nesibindi sokuphuma endaweni yakho yokunethezeka. Izosusa isisindo emahlombe akho.
Ukuhamba eqhweni
Ukuphupha ngokuhamba eqhweni kufanekisela izinto ezinhle eziza empilweni yakho, ikakhulukazi uma ushiya imikhondo ebonakalayo ngemuva. Kungaba izindaba ezinhle noma ukugcwaliseka kwamaphupho akho.
Leli phupho lingaba nencazelo engeyinhle uma uhamba ungafake zicathulo. Kungabikezela isizungu noma ukwesaba isizungu.
Iqhwa elincibilikayo
Iphupho mayelana nokuncibilika kweqhwa lisho ukuqedwa kobunzima obunesikhathi eside, ukuthethelela, ukubuyisana, kanye “nokufudumala” nobudlelwano bakho bamanje.
Ubudlelwano benu buzofudumala, futhi wena nomlingani wakho nizovuleleka ngokomzwelo komunye nomunye.
Uma ungenaye umlingani, leli phupho lingabikezela ukuvezwa okungcono kwemizwelo yakho kanye nekhono lokuvuleka kakhudlwana.
Iwa (shelela) eqhweni
Iphupho lokuwa eqhweni lisho ukuthi ubudlelwano bakho nomlingani wakho buzodumaza kakhulu. Ukuthembela ebudlelwaneni kuzonyamalala, futhi kuzoba nzima ukuphinde ukuthole. Uma ungekho ebuhlotsheni, leli phupho lingabonisa ukuthi awuzethembi wena namakhono akho, okwenza impilo yakho ibe nzima.
Ukuphupha ngeqhwa endlini
Iqhwa livame ukuhlotshaniswa nokubanda, futhi ukuphupha ngeqhwa endlini yakho kungase kufanekisele ukuxoshwa ngokomzwelo noma ukuntuleka kokufudumala ebuhlotsheni bakho. Kungase kube inkomba yokuthi uzizwa uhlukanisiwe noma ukude ngokomzwelo kulabo abaseduze nawe.
Leli phupho lingaba isikhumbuzo sokuhlola ukuxhumana kwakho futhi ufune ukuxhumana okujulile ngokomzwelo nabathandekayo bakho. Kungase futhi kusho ukuthi kufanele uvule inhliziyo yakho othandweni.
Udla iqhwa
Iqhwa livame ukuhlotshaniswa nokuhlanza nokuhlanza ngenxa yokubukeka kwalo okumhlophe nokuhlanzekile. Emaphusheni, ukudla iqhwa kungase kufanekisele isifiso sokuhlanzwa ngokomzwelo noma ngokomoya. Kungase kubonise ukuthi ufuna ukuyeka imizwa engemihle noma okuhlangenwe nakho kwesikhathi esidlule bese uqala kabusha.
Uma umuntu ekuphoqa ukuthi udle iqhwa, lokho kungasho ukuthi ukhona othile empilweni yakho ofuna ushintshe ube ngcono.
I-Snowdrift
I-Snowdrift ephusheni ibikezela ukuthuthuka kwesimo sakho sezezimali. Ifanekisela ukulondeka ngokwezimali noma inkululeko; akusadingeki uthembele kumuntu.
Iqhwa Leqhwa
Uke waphupha nge-avalanche ekusibekele ngeqhwa elinzima? Lolu hlobo lwephupho lungase lubonise ubuhlobo obungenampilo nobuthi noma othile ozama ukubeka zonke izinkinga zakhe kuwe.
Ukushibilika eqhweni elimbozwe yiqhwa
Uma ushibilika eqhweni elimbozwe yiqhwa, kukholakala ukuthi awulisebenzisanga kahle ithuba elinikezwe isiphetho. Uthe “cha” ethubeni ebelingakhiqiza imiphumela emihle kakhulu. Ukucaca, iqhwa elimhlophe lisho okuphambene ngqo – ukuthi wenze izinqumo ezinhle ezizoholela kumphumela wakho wephupho.
Iqhwa elingcolile
Ukuphupha ngeqhwa elingcolile kusho ukuthi kufanele uqaphele ngezinqumo zakho noma indlela onquma ngayo. Cabanga ngokucophelela futhi uthathe yonke into kancane. Uma ushesha, ungase ugcine wenze amaphutha. Cabanga kabili ngaphambi kokuba wenze, futhi ucabange ngaphambi kokuba ukhulume.
Ukulwa kwe-snowball
Ukuphupha ngempi ye-snowball kusho ukuthi uzonqoba isithiyo osunesikhathi eside ubhekene naso. Ngenxa yalokho, ngeke uzithathele izinto ngokwakho futhi uzokholelwa kakhulu kuwena nasemakhonweni akho noma amathalente akho.
Ukudlala neqhwa kusho isikhathi esingenazinkathazo nesijabulisayo, kodwa uma kukhona okumele ukwenze noma ukuqedele, ungakuhlehlisi kuze kube kamuva. Ungase ujabule ngemva kwalokho, futhi.
