Wake waphupha ngokuba nomfana wengane muva nje? Amaphupho okukhulelwa nokubeletha kuvame ukufanekisela ubuqambi, ukuvuselelwa, nokuqala okusha empilweni yakho yokuvuka.
Uma ungowesifazane, ukuphupha ngokuzala ingane yomfana kungamelela ukuzala umbono omusha wokudala noma iphrojekthi oyikhathalela kakhulu. Kubonisa ukuthi usukulungele ukwaba le “ngane” nomhlaba.
Uma uyindoda, leli phupho lingakhombisa amandla akho okukhulisa nokuxhasa amandla okudala namathalente abanye.
Ukuchazwa okungokomoya kwamaphupho kungokwakhe kakhulu. Kepha emasikweni amaningi, umfana wengane emaphusheni uwuphawu lwamandla amasha, isifiso sokuvelela, kanye nezimfanelo zobudoda njengamandla angaphakathi noma isibindi ofuna ukusithuthukisa ngokwakho.
I-Symbolism
Umfana wengane emaphusheni uyafanekisela:
- amandla angaphakathi
- ukuqala okusha
- amandla okufeza izinto ezinhle
- isifiso sakho sokuba namandla futhi uqiniseke ngokwengeziwe
Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha umntwana womfana ngokomoya
Ukuphupha ngokukhulelwa nomfana wengane kungaba nencazelo eningi engokomfanekiso. Nazi ezinye izincazelo ezingaba khona:
Ukuqala okusha
Ingane ifanekisela ukuqala okusha, amathuba amasha namandla amasha. Ukuphupha komfana wengane kungakhombisa ukuqala kwephrojekthi entsha noma umsebenzi ozodinga ukukhulisa nokukhulisa. Kungamelela umbono noma umbono onawo osasebusheni bawo.
Mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi sokuthi uthathe i-leap bese uqala okuthile obekulokhu kukuthusa. Futhi ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbe futhi yisikhathi esifanele sokuvula ngemizwa yakho kulowo muntu okhethekile obukade uwuthola uthando oluyimfihlo.
Emaphusheni, umfana wengane ufanekisela ukuqina kanye nomqondo onqunyelwe ukuqala noma ukwenza izinto ezikwenze wesabe esikhathini esedlule.
Izimfanelo ze-Masculine
Umfana wengane angasayina futhi izimfanelo zesiko lobudoda njengokugomela, isibindi, ukuzimela nobuholi. I-subconscious yakho kungenzeka ikutshele ukuthi udinga ukuthuthukisa noma ukufaka ezinye zalezi zici empilweni yakho.
Uma ungowesifazane, ukuphupha ngomfana wengane empeleni kuyinkomba enhle yokuthi kufanele ube nokukholwa okwengeziwe kuwe namakhono akho. Uyakukholwa noma cha, unamandla kakhulu kunokuba uzinika isikweletu! Ungowesifazane oqinile!
Kuyisikhuthazo ukuba namandla
Leli phupho lingafana ne-push encane ukukukhuthaza ukuthi uqiniseke futhi ube nesibindi ngokwengeziwe. Mhlawumbe uzizwa unqikaza kancane ngokwenza noma ukusho okuthile, kepha leli phupho likunxusa ukuthi uyihambele futhi ungavumeli ukwesaba kukubambe.
Abesilisa, bebonke, bavame ukucabanga okuncane futhi bathathe izinyathelo ezinomusa, uma kuqhathaniswa nabesifazane. Leli phupho likukhuthaza ukuthi uthele kulawo mandla futhi uphishekele okuthandayo noma okhuluma ingqondo yakho. Ungesabi ukuzama izinto ezintsha futhi uthembeke kuwe nakwabanye, ngaphandle kokwesaba.
Ifa
Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuthi ukuphupha komfana wengane kumelela ifa lakho, umthelela wakho noma lokho ozoshiya ngemuva. Kungakhombisa isifiso sokudala okuthile okuzokukhipha, kungaba ngezingane, ibhizinisi, imisebenzi yokudala noma okunye ukufeza.
Ukuzibophezela
Ukunakekela ingane kudinga umthwalo wemfanelo, futhi umfana wengane ephusheni lakho angasayina izibopho okudingeka ubhekane nazo noma ozigwema empilweni yakho yokuvuka. Iphupho lingakunxusa ukuthi ukhuphukele emisebenzini ebalulekile noma ukuzibophezela okwenzile.
Amandla okudala
Amaphupho wokukhulelwa avame ukuboshelwa kubuqambi. Uma uphupha ukhulelwe indodana, kungakhombisa ukuthi unamandla noma amathalenta angafakwanga ongakawahloli. Manje yisikhathi sokuqala ukucabanga ngemibono emisha nokulandela amaphrojekthi wokudala akukhuthaza.
Isifiso sokufeza
Ukuthwala ingane yabesilisa ephusheni kungakhombisa idrayivu yakho yokufeza nempumelelo. Kungenzeka ube nezinhloso ezibalulekile namaphupho ofuna ukuwafeza, futhi le yindlela yomqondo wakho yokukukhuthaza nokukukhuthaza. Vumela leli phupho likukhuthaze ukuthi usebenze kanzima bese ulandela lokho okufunayo.
Vele, incazelo yephupho lakho elithile izoncika ezinhlanganweni zakho siqu kanye nomongo lapho kuvela khona umfana wengane. Kepha lezi zincazelo ezingokomfanekiso ezinganikeza indawo yokuqala yokuhlola ukuthi ukuba nomfana wengane ephusheni lakho.
Uzozala umfana wengane
Kwesinye isikhathi kodwa hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi, iphupho lingahunyushwa ngokoqobo. Lokho kusho ukuthi uma ukhulelwe, uzozala umfana wengane.
Isiphetho
I-subconscious yakho kungenzeka ikutshele ukuthi unamandla ngaphakathi kuwe ukudala amathuba amasha nokuqala okusha. Umfana wengane ephusheni lakho angasho ukuthi usezandleni zokuqala isahluko esisha esijabulisayo. Kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi kufanele ungene emandleni akho obudoda obusebenza nobuholi ukwenza izinto zenzeke.
Iphupho lokuzala indodana livame ukuba lihle kakhulu. Kusho ukuthi kunamathuba namandla ngaphakathi kwakho elinde ukuzalwa. Lalela imiyalezo evela ephusheni lakho.
Futhi, incazelo yehlela kulokho okuvumelana kakhulu nawe nemicabango yakho ngephupho. Kepha ngethemba ukuthi lezi zincazelo ezingaba khona zikunikeza indawo yokuqala yokucabanga.
