Do you ever hear people say that things are “written in the stars”? Well, as someone who’s been studying astrology for a long time, I don’t really think that’s true when it comes to sexuality.
People are always asking me about astrology and who they’re attracted to. Many of us are naturally curious and want to know if the way they feel about others or certain things about their sexuality are written up there in the night sky. Or if someone they know swings a certain way, too.
Can Astrology Tell Us About Homosexuality?
I may disappoint you, but when it comes to astrology, there really aren’t any straight-up signs that say “this person is gay” or that someone will have a certain number of kids or live in a particular place. Nothing direct like that.
Now, that being said, if you look at certain factors together, they might provide some context that gives a little hint about someone’s sexuality. Nothing is 100% for sure, but certain astrological combinations seem to make someone more likely to be attracted to the same sex.
While astrology can’t give all the details you’re looking for, it does offer some clues to tell if someone might be gay or not. Common signs include Saturn in the first house, Mercury conjunct Venus, Venus in the twelfth house, and Saturn opposite the Moon. Each of those placements has been linked to same-sex attraction.
Saturn In The 1st House
Saturn in the 1st house is one of the problematic positions of Saturn in the horoscope. Individuals with Saturn being positioned in their first house often face difficulties in defining their identity, determining their interests, and establishing their principles.
They feel as if they are living under lock and key. They live under the impression that they have to behave in a way that conforms to the correct norms of society, although they fundamentally dislike it. While they desire to live freely, they fear the potential judgment of others and avoid drawing excessive attention to themselves.
People with Saturn in the 1st house usually have a difficult childhood, both mentally and physically. They may feel depressed and isolated and suffer from headaches or head injuries. Nevertheless, they eventually reach success in their later years and fulfill all of their aspirations, including romantic love. It appears as though they are being compensated for the hardships they encountered during their childhood.
All the hard trials of life make them the people they are today and give them the strength not to be afraid to come out as gay (though they are not ones to brag about it publicly.)
Mercury Conjunct Venus
Mercury conjunct Venus is, in my opinion, one of the most obvious indicators of homosexuality. People with this astrological position are extremely intelligent and knowledgeable. When it comes to love, they tend to be attracted to mature, intellectual, or significantly older (either mentally or in age) individuals.
They need freedom of movement, thoughts, and speech. They don’t like inhibitions, limitations, or being told what they should or shouldn’t do. They are free thinkers who believe that love is more than just a word.
Either they may be gay themselves, or they will have lots of LGBTQ friends who will value their respect and openness. Mercury, in conjunction with the female planet Venus, makes men born with this astrological aspect incredibly gentle, beautiful, and sensitive. They have a sense of beauty and style, and a hairdresser, stylist, or artist is an ideal profession for these people.
People with this aspect have a natural talent for effectively communicating through speech or writing. Hence, if they have a deep affection for someone, one of the ways they choose to express their emotions or express their innermost thoughts is through the medium of poetry.
Saturn Opposite Moon
If you were born with Saturn in opposition to the Moon, you might sometimes feel as if you were from another planet, so to speak. This is a powerful placement that can create a feeling of being distinct or detached from their physical body and identity.
They are prone to depression, anxiety, and frustration and can sometimes feel as if they are lost in their feelings or don’t really know what they are feeling. Or they know what they feel, but they don’t understand why and where that feeling came from.
This position is especially potent for men who often find themselves in unhappy marriages and have a kind of innate prejudice against their mothers. They may sometimes feel as though their mother did not give or teach them something in their childhood, and now they are trying to figure it out on their own.
For women, this position signifies some realization or self-acceptance in late life. If they admit they are gay, they won’t do so until the second half of their lives. They must first accept themselves in order to be able to go out in public and be accepted by others.
Venus In The 12th House
Venus in the 12th house, sometimes referred to as the indicator of “hidden love,” is one of the other indirect indicators of homosexuality in astrology. People with Venus in the 12th house tend to be loners and have a lot of secrets. They can daydream about their ideal partner or celebrity crush until they lose track of reality (and time.)
The 12th house gives them fear or, rather, difficulty in coming out with their sexuality, and the longer they hold it in, the more stressed they are. Unless they are secretly in love with a person of the same gender, they may hide their affairs or other intimate secrets that have nothing to do with homosexuality from others.
Men, in particular, with this astrological placement, may live in marriage with a woman and even have children while secretly being in love with a person of the same sex.
Other Indicators
- The Moon sign is thought by some to correlate with queerness. Having a Moon in Aquarius, Gemini, or Libra is said to make someone more open to exploring non-traditional relationships and orientations. These air signs are associated with freedom, open-mindedness, and fluidity.
- The Venus sign can also be a factor, according to some believers in LGBT astrology. Having a Venus in Scorpio or Pisces is thought to make someone more fluid and less strictly “hetero-normative” in their attractions and relationships. Venus rules love and relationships, so its placement can be meaningful.
- The placement of Uranus, the planet of rebellion and revolution, is another possible indicator. Having a strongly placed Uranus, especially in the water signs of Cancer, Scorpio, or Pisces, is said to make one more nonconforming when it comes to sexuality and relationships. Uranus disrupts traditional structures, so its influence could make someone question heteronormative assumptions.
Zodiac Signs Most Likely To Be Gay
There are no definitive studies linking zodiac signs to sexual orientation. However, based on common stereotypes and perceptions, some zodiac signs are often believed to be more likely to be gay than others.
Leo (July 23 – August 22): Leos are known for being flamboyant, dramatic, and outgoing. They enjoy being the center of attention and are comfortable with self-expression. These stereotypically “gay” traits lead some to believe that Leos may be overrepresented in the LGBTQ community.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20): Geminis are associated with being versatile, open-minded, and androgynous. They are known for having a wide range of interests and fluid identities. These more “gender neutral” qualities lead some to link Geminis with being gay or bisexual.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18): Aquarians are stereotyped as being progressive, unconventional thinkers. They value independence, authenticity, and individuality. Aquarians are often seen as open to exploring identities outside of societal norms, including non-heterosexual orientations.
Let’s Wrap This Up
Astrology can be fun and give you insight into yourself, but I wouldn’t use it to assume things about someone’s sexuality. Even so, you really can’t fully rely on your birth chart when it comes to being gay. And we shouldn’t expect the stars to work magic.
For the ladies, I’d say pay more attention to how Mars aspects your chart. For guys, take a closer look at Venus. But most importantly, follow your heart – it’s the wisest thing of all.
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