Have you ever heard people say that things are “written in the stars”? Well, as someone who’s studied astrology for a long time, I think even though we control our own fate, some astrology aspects may hint at being gay.
The article won’t go into being transgender but instead focuses on signs that may point to same-sex attraction. If you’re wondering about being trans, you should check out this article instead.
Can Astrology Tell Us About Homosexuality?
Astrology can’t directly say whether someone is gay or not. There aren’t any signs that are like, “Yes, that person is definitely gay!” or that spells out how many kids you’ll have. But if you look at a few astrological things together, it can give you a little context.
Certain combinations seem to increase the chances of being attracted to the same sex, even if it’s not a guaranteed thing. Some signs that are often linked to gay folks include Saturn in the 1st and 10th house, Mercury being close to Venus, Venus in the twelfth house, and Saturn opposite the Moon.
Saturn In The 1st House
Having Saturn in the first house can definitely make things interesting. In fact, it’s one of the more challenging placements, especially if Saturn is close to your rising sign. Figuring out who you are and what you enjoy can be a journey.
It sometimes feels like you’re stuck following all the rules when really you just want to do your own thing. And you don’t want all the attention that breaking rules might bring. When you were younger, life was tough both mentally and physically. You probably felt sad and alone more often than not.
It’s no surprise that depression is common with this placement. With Saturn there, it can feel like your entire existence and everything you do is restricted. Your parents may have been very stern growing up, or you felt mostly on your own.
The good news is this placement builds great maturity over time. And when you do come into your own and share who you truly are with the world, it likely won’t happen until you are 29-30ish after that first Saturn return.
Saturn In The 10th House
Many astrologers believe that if Saturn is in the 10th house of a man’s birth chart, it could mean he’s attracted to other men. For men, the 10th house is about their mother. And the 4th house for women is about their father. So a strong Saturn there might show problems with how close he felt to his mom when he was growing up. Or he has a hard time seeing a woman or his mom as being in charge.
The 10th house is also about how others see you publicly. And Saturn there means you might always feel limited in how you present yourself to other people. It’s like you feel you have to pretend to be someone different for people to like you.
Coming out of the closet with this placement can be incredibly tough. You’re probably worried that if everyone finds out you’re gay, it’ll ruin your career and whole life. That’s why a lot of men with Saturn in the tenth house end up staying deeply in the closet. It can feel like the only way to climb the ladder of success is to keep that part of themselves hidden from the world.
Mercury Conjunct Venus
When Mercury is conjunct with Venus, it can sometimes indicate that someone is homosexual, especially women. People with this aspect are usually very smart and knowledgeable. In relationships, they tend to be attracted to more mature and intellectual partners, or even someone significantly older than them.
They value freedom in how they think and act. They don’t like it when there are limits on what they can do. These free thinkers see love as deeper than just a word.
They may be gay themselves or have a lot of LGBTQ friends who they respect. With Mercury and Venus lined up, men can be very gentle, beautiful, and sensitive. They enjoy things like art, beauty, and self-expression. Careers in things like hairdressing or art might play to their talents.
Saturn Opposite Moon
If you were born with Saturn opposite the Moon, you might feel like you come from a different planet. That’s a really strong placement that can make you feel disconnected from your body and identity.
You’d probably feel more down, anxious, or frustrated than others. Sometimes, you feel lost in your emotions or don’t know what you’re actually feeling. Or maybe you know how you feel but not why or where it’s coming from.
That’s especially tough for guys who often have unhappy marriages. They might feel some natural dislike for their moms, like she failed to teach them something important when they were kids. Now they try to figure it out on their own.
For women, this aspect means accepting yourself more later in life. If they’re gay, they likely won’t admit it until after middle age. First, they need to accept themselves before feeling comfortable opening up about it with others.
Both women and men with this placement spend a lot of time looking inside and figuring out their sexuality. But eventually they accept who they are and come out. People with this don’t seem gay at all, so when they do come out, it really surprises friends and family.
Venus In The 12th House
Venus in the 12th house is said to indicate hidden love. People with this aspect tend to be more lone wolf types who keep a lot to themselves. They can daydream so much about their perfect partner that it starts to feel more real than what’s actually going on.
That 12th house energy makes them scared to be open about who they’re attracted to. The longer they keep it hidden inside, the more stressed out they feel. It doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with being into the same gender either – they may be hiding intimate secrets about all sorts of things.
Men with Venus here may even get married to a lady and have kids while secretly being in love with someone of the same sex. Sad but true – not all people with this placement end up sharing who they really are with the world. Lots take their secret to the grave, so to speak.
Other Indicators
- The Moon sign is thought by some to correlate with queerness. Having a Moon in Aquarius, Gemini, or Libra is said to make someone more open to exploring non-traditional relationships and orientations. These air signs are associated with freedom, open-mindedness, and fluidity.
- The Venus sign can also be a factor, according to some believers in LGBT astrology. Having a Venus in Scorpio or Pisces is thought to make someone more fluid and less strictly “hetero-normative” in their attractions and relationships. Venus rules love and relationships, so its placement can be meaningful.
- The placement of Uranus, the planet of rebellion and revolution, is another possible indicator. Having a strongly placed Uranus, especially in the water signs of Cancer, Scorpio, or Pisces, is said to make one more nonconforming when it comes to sexuality and relationships. Uranus disrupts traditional structures, so its influence could make someone question heteronormative assumptions.
Zodiac Signs Most Likely To Be Gay
There aren’t any scientific studies that directly connect your zodiac sign with being gay or straight. But you know how stereotypes are – people think some signs have a better chance of not being straight.
Leo (July 23 – August 22): Leos are known for being flamboyant, dramatic, and outgoing. They enjoy being the center of attention and are comfortable with self-expression. These stereotypically “gay” traits lead some to believe that Leos may be overrepresented in the LGBTQ community.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20): Geminis are associated with being versatile, open-minded, and androgynous. They are known for having a wide range of interests and fluid identities. These more “gender neutral” qualities lead some to link Geminis with being gay or bisexual.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18): Aquarians are stereotyped as being progressive, unconventional thinkers. They value independence, authenticity, and individuality. Aquarians are often seen as open to exploring identities outside of societal norms, including non-heterosexual orientations.
Let’s Wrap This Up
Astrology can be a fun way to learn about yourself, but I wouldn’t use it to assume things about someone’s sexuality. Even so, you really shouldn’t take your birth chart as the full story when it comes to being gay. And we can’t expect the stars alone to work some kind of magic.
For the ladies, I’d say pay more attention to how Mars aspects your chart. For guys, take a closer look at Venus. But most importantly, follow what’s in your heart – it’s the wisest thing of all. Love is love.
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