Why are Geminis so hard to understand, and what makes them different from other star signs? How to understand their dual personality? Read on to find out!
Geminians are like a box of chocolates: you never know which one you will get. Sometimes, they’re shy and reserved; other times, they’re outgoing and eager to meet new people. They can be sensitive and thoughtful one moment, then flippant and sarcastic the next. It’s enough to make anyone crazy, isn’t it?
Gemini is the ultimate duality: they can be sassy or sweet, shy or self-assured, liberal or conservative. The trickiest part is that this unpredictable behavior happens fairly regularly, making them a challenge to understand. Their behavior isn’t random; it has meaning and purpose. But why do they seem so hard to read?
They are two people in one body
Geminis are two people in one body. When I say two people, I mean two personalities, not someone wearing two faces or cheating on their partner! Geminis have two distinct personalities: introverted personality and extroverted personality. These two personalities are constantly warring with one another, resulting in a Gemini who can be flighty, moody, and, at times, difficult to understand or emotional.
Because of these two distinct personalities, Geminis often feel they are living double or super chaotic lives. This can be exhausting, and it’s one of the reasons they are often seen as fickle. They may find themselves doing things they don’t want to or talking about things they don’t want to talk about. It’s almost as if two people are arguing inside their heads and don’t know how to make them stop. And, honestly, if Gemini doesn’t understand themselves, how could you?
The best thing you can do if you know a Gemini is to be aware that they have two personalities. So you won’t be surprised if one moment they are full of energy and the next they look like they have been run over by a car.
They are constantly observing
Geminis constantly observe their surroundings, thoughts and emotions, and, sometimes, the people around them. This is both a blessing and a curse. On the one hand, they are insightful; they are excellent critical thinkers, and they can analyze situations with a level of depth that few people possess. On the other hand, they can sometimes seem distant and unemotional.
Geminis are constantly analyzing their thoughts and feelings, and this is something they do without even realizing it. This can cause them to appear unemotional and distant, and it can make it even more difficult for people to understand them.
Geminis are excellent observers, which means that they can find beauty and meaning in seemingly mundane things. They are truly gifted when it comes to observation. But this can also make them seem detached, as though they are viewing the world from afar, or people may think of them as weird for being able to find beauty in a gray sky or wanting to achieve something that seems absolutely unattainable.
When a Gemini, for example, starts telling you about falling in love with old Soviet buildings while traveling in Eastern Europe, it’s because they spent some time observing and thinking about their surroundings while traveling. One might say that only a freak would like such a thing or that a normal person could not have such interests. Geminis are different, though. They can be hard to understand why they like something that isn’t attractive or why they do something that seems pointless to you, but that’s just who they are. They see beauty through more eyes than just the two physical ones that adorn their face.
Their communication is often cryptic
Geminis are notoriously cryptic, and this is because they are trying to protect themselves. They often see the world as a scary place, and, as a result, they are often guarded and defensive. Geminis prefer to deal with things on their own, and they don’t like to burden others with their problems. Because of this, they often speak cryptically and try to keep their emotions at arm’s length.
If you know a Gemini who is going through a tough time, but they share funny videos or tell you that they are feeling good, it’s because they don’t want to bother the world around them. And no, they’re not lying. It’s just their defense mechanism.
Lastly, Geminis are incredibly intelligent, and they can make connections that others don’t see. They pick up on subtleties that others miss and have an uncanny ability to see patterns and connections where others don’t. This makes their cryptic communication even more frustrating to deal with. Geminis are a highly tolerant sun sign, so if you don’t understand something they said or the meaning of their message, simply ask them. They won’t be upset. On the contrary, they will be happy that you are interested and want to engage in communication.
Read also: 12 Signs To Tell If A Gemini Likes You
Their behavior has meaning and purpose
Yes, Geminis can be fickle, but that doesn’t mean their behavior has no meaning. In fact, their behavior has profound meaning; it just requires a little bit of insight to see that.
Geminis are constantly struggling to find balance, and this is something that is reflected in their lives. They may struggle to make friends, but once they have a few close friends, they are incredibly loyal and devoted.
They may jump from one job to the next or switch majors in college several times before they find something they feel passionate about. This is because they want to find a career path that combines their two distinct personalities to be true to themselves and find balance.
Geminis always search for balance and meaning, sometimes making them seem fickle. But once you understand Gemini and what makes them tick, you’ll never look at them the same way again. Believe me, if they were 100% satisfied in their relationship, work, or school, they would not change a thing.
They are natural multi-taskers
Geminis are natural multi-taskers. They are great at taking on several projects at once or doing several things at once. This helps them to be super efficient, but it can also lead to poor focus and scattered results. Because they’re so good at multitasking, they may feel like they can handle anything, which is something few people around them understand. This can cause them to overcommit, which can lead to unnecessary pressure.
The Geminis’ erratic behavior and thought processes can be hard to understand — even for their loved ones or people who have known them for a long time! The key to understanding Geminis is to accept that they have a different perspective than the rest of us and that they can do several things at once.
They also tend to get bored easily, so they move on to the next thing before others are finished with the first, and that’s something few people understand. Gemini can do things quickly and yet perfectly. Therefore, if a Gemini is one step ahead of you, it does not mean that they did perform worse just because they are faster. Remember, they are two people-two personalities in one, and they can often use their brains and bodies simultaneously.
Gemini is one of the most difficult signs to understand. They are complicated, and on top of that, they are extremely changeable. They are brash, loud, and outspoken but also have incredible wit and intelligence and can be emotional and sensitive. It might feel like there’s no way to understand them, but there is! You just need to learn how to deal with them.
But how to do that, you might ask? Start by acknowledging their moods and work from there. Put yourself in their shoes and try understanding where they’re coming from. You’ll be one step closer to understanding them if you can do that! Geminis are full of contradictions, but that’s part of what makes them so fascinating.
I’m not a Gemini myself, but I have more than enough of them around me, and I love love them! Sometimes they are like a puzzle that takes some time to solve. But nothing is impossible!